Hello,
I want to air my problem I am having and see if anyone else is experiencing or has experienced the same thing and also if somebody could tell me I'm being silly and bring me back to reality or if they genuinely think I should be worried. I'm 14 weeks pregnant and a couple weeks after finding out, I started to think and believe that this wasn't my partners baby. Even thought I have NEVER cheated! And I know I haven't. The reason I am paranoid is because around the same time I conceived, i was with friends (boys and girls) and we were having a laugh about a new dildo/vibrator thing I bought, one of the boys held it and touched it then about 5 minutes later after they'd gone I used it. And now I am PETRIFIED that for some reason he had sperm on his hands or dry sperm, but I would of seen it surely?? Plus there's no reason for him to have had sperm on his hands. This worry is making me not enjoy my pregnancy at all as I am convinced the baby belongs to this guy instead of my partner. Even though me and my partner had sex on the day I conceived so everything makes sense. I'm absolutely terrified and it's eating away at me. I'm not sure if im having an irrational thought or this is something I should worry about??
I think that you are worrying for no reason. You are really over thinking everything to the next level. No such thing can ever happen and you are going through some very stupid depression haha. You should enjoy your pregnancy and cherish this time. You should be thankful for being lucky enough to get pregnant instead of worrying about something so stupid that has not even happened. If only it was this easy to get pregnant my life would have been very very easy lol. I am TTC from the past 8 years and even after all these years, I haven't got to conceive. You are lucky and you should take care of yourself instead of stressing about something so weird and stupid.
Hey there! You're just over thinking, that is not possible, not even once in a blue moon, no one goes out with sperm in his hand. I have heard a lot of stories about depression but this one is on a whole new level, Don't overthink, it will stress you, and stress is bad for you and your baby. Much love!