hi im 13. ive never fingered myself before. but i might wanna try... but just a few things
_is it concidered touching?
_ what if my mom or dad finds out
_ can i get pregnate from it?
_when i go to the doctors will he ask if someone has been touching me?
..and i think im lesbian.. i have a smal crush on my bbfl. and a few guys but idk what to do! please help me on both!!!!
If you are 13 years old and do not know the answers to these questions yet, you need to talk to your school nurse as it seems your parents are not doing their job.
Hi, ignore what mybutthurts says as that's not an answer at all!
When someone asks you if your being touched they mean by someone else that shouldn't be doing it to you.
If your masturbating in your own room at night after you in to bed or bathroom when you in to bed or when everyone is asleep then they shouldn't find out.
No you can't get pregnant from fingering yourself you need a guy to provide his semen to fertilize the egg your body produces.
He may ask you but as I said before it means by someone else not by you.
What your feeling for your friend is natural at your age because of the new hormones you have sending out strange messages, it doesn't mean your lesbian or bisexual its just that your curious.
Hope that has answered some of you questions and explained them for you :-)
When someone asks you if your being touched they mean by someone else that shouldn't be doing it to you.
If your masturbating in your own room at night after you in to bed or bathroom when you in to bed or when everyone is asleep then they shouldn't find out.
No you can't get pregnant from fingering yourself you need a guy to provide his semen to fertilize the egg your body produces.
He may ask you but as I said before it means by someone else not by you.
What your feeling for your friend is natural at your age because of the new hormones you have sending out strange messages, it doesn't mean your lesbian or bisexual its just that your curious.
Hope that has answered some of you questions and explained them for you :-)
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you cant get pregnant and I don't think your actually a lesbian, maybe your confusing the feelings you have for her
you cant get pregnant and I don't think your actually a lesbian, maybe your confusing the feelings you have for her
"ive never fingered myself before ... is it concidered [considered] touching?"
It depends the context of your question and your specific meaning of the question. Why do you ask? What do you exactly mean by "fingering" (clitoral stimulation or vaginal penetration)?
"what if my mom or dad finds out". That depends on what they think about masturbation. Have they said anything about the subject to you? Is maintaining an intact hymen important to you?
"can i get pregnate [pregnant] from it?" Provided you don't have sperm on your hands you will not get pregnant from masturbation. To get pregnant, sperm has to enter your vagina at a fertile time.
"when i go to the doctors will he ask if someone has been touching me?" It depends on where you live and the doctor concerned.
"and i think im lesbian.. i have a smal crush on my bbfl. and a few guys but idk what to do!" Crushes are normal. Having feelings for other members of the same sex does not indicate homosexuality/lesbianism. Acting on those feelings is homosexual/lesbian behaviour. But that does not mean you are a lesbian/homosexual.
Having a crush on some guys indicates that you are not a lesbian. Having crushes is normal when growing up and particularly in the earlier stages of puberty.
Don't worry about the crushes, but get to know guys first as very good friends before considering ant sexual activity at all. It is best leaving that activity until you are much older and are ready for a long-term commitment.
Hope this helps as a start.
1. Fingering yourself is the same as touching yourself. Whatever, doesn't matter.
2. It's your business how you touch your own body. Your mother and father have touched themselves countless times in their lives. Just don't share your touching with your parents at the dinner table and everything will be fine. If you think they would get upset about it then just make sure you're not fingering yourself while they are in your room or nearby.
3. You cannot get pregnant from touching yourself EVER. Semen makes you pregnant, not fingers.
4. Your doctor will never ask you if you masturbate/touch yourself/finger yourself unless there's some wild medical problem that will frankly never happen! Even if he did ask for some weird reason, he wouldn't be asking you in order to upset you or divulge your personal sexual activity to your parents.
5. MANY women are lesbians... like 5% or something. Don't worry about trying to be straight/bisexual/lesbian ever... just follow your feelings of attractiveness to whoever you feel is right!! And never worry about that ever... we're all born a certain way and that's just how we are. Never feel guilty or let anyone lower your self esteem about your sexual preference EVER!
2. It's your business how you touch your own body. Your mother and father have touched themselves countless times in their lives. Just don't share your touching with your parents at the dinner table and everything will be fine. If you think they would get upset about it then just make sure you're not fingering yourself while they are in your room or nearby.
3. You cannot get pregnant from touching yourself EVER. Semen makes you pregnant, not fingers.
4. Your doctor will never ask you if you masturbate/touch yourself/finger yourself unless there's some wild medical problem that will frankly never happen! Even if he did ask for some weird reason, he wouldn't be asking you in order to upset you or divulge your personal sexual activity to your parents.
5. MANY women are lesbians... like 5% or something. Don't worry about trying to be straight/bisexual/lesbian ever... just follow your feelings of attractiveness to whoever you feel is right!! And never worry about that ever... we're all born a certain way and that's just how we are. Never feel guilty or let anyone lower your self esteem about your sexual preference EVER!
This is not culturally sensitive! To tell someone that what you believe to be acceptable in your own culture/religion (or even contrary to your own culture/religion) must pertain to others is inconsiderate. Find out the circumstances before pontificating as encouraging counter-cultural behaviour may put someone in jeopardy.
1. It depends on the cultural use of the term contextually whether it is the same or not.
2. Depending on the culture, the parents my not have "touched themselves countless times". Also, whether or not they have done so does not make it culturally acceptable. Doing something you know is not culturally acceptable is not as easy as you make out.
3. You CAN get pregnant from fingering yourself if sperm is on your fingers. It has happened. Sperm makes you pregnant, not semen. Semen usually (but not always) contains sperm.
4. Doctors HAVE been known to ask about masturbation, and have divulged information to parents in some cultures.
5. If 5% women are lesbians, it indicates that 95% are not. That doesn't make it any more culturally acceptable or not. However, the question posed was a simple "am I?" and she wanted practical help on her questions.