i had sex wid my boyfriend last day.... i wz a virgin... but i m not sure if i lost it or not... coz at dat time i dint hv bleeding but nxt day morning i got a lil bleeding... is it periods or i lost my virginity????
OK, first lets start with some facts. If you two had intercourse where his penis penetrated your vagina then you are no longer a virgin. Apparently the hymen does not always break the first time for every girl. So google the word hymen and see where it is and what it looks like. You can take a mirror and flashlight to see if it is still there or not. If you have problems doing this, let your boyfriend help.
If the hymen is gone, then the bleeding might have been you "losing your virginity". It is possible for it to be a period, but you will see if it has the same results as your other periods.
Pregnant? Most likely not. You will only get pregnant if you have sperm inside your vagina, while you are ovulating. Basically you must have sex during a 3 day window between your periods. If you use protection or are on the pill then you will also prevent pregnancy almost 99% of the time. There is always an exception.
Now that you are sexually active I would recommend that you get on birth control pills. I don't know your age, so if you are still living at home you can tell your mom that you want to get on BC pills to help regulate your period. This is actually a good reason to be on them anyway. You should still use a condom to prevent any STD's or even the panic feeling you are having now about being pregnant. The best solution for girls is to have your own condoms stashed away. This way the guy can never pressure you to do it without one.
If the hymen is gone, then the bleeding might have been you "losing your virginity". It is possible for it to be a period, but you will see if it has the same results as your other periods.
Pregnant? Most likely not. You will only get pregnant if you have sperm inside your vagina, while you are ovulating. Basically you must have sex during a 3 day window between your periods. If you use protection or are on the pill then you will also prevent pregnancy almost 99% of the time. There is always an exception.
Now that you are sexually active I would recommend that you get on birth control pills. I don't know your age, so if you are still living at home you can tell your mom that you want to get on BC pills to help regulate your period. This is actually a good reason to be on them anyway. You should still use a condom to prevent any STD's or even the panic feeling you are having now about being pregnant. The best solution for girls is to have your own condoms stashed away. This way the guy can never pressure you to do it without one.