Hello I am 16 years old and I am still a virgin, but I've had sex before. I've been masturbating since I was about 14 and as the years went on it took alot more effort to arousal me while masturbating. This is when I started watching porn while masturbating because my penis wouldn't get fully erected. I use to masturbate about 1-2 times a day so I don't think it was excessive masturbation. When I try to masturbate without watching porn it takes alot longer to get hard then it use to and even still my penis would be limp, I would try to continue in hopes it will get hard and I can preform the act but I soon lose interest and just give up. The only way I could get a rock hard erection would be to have my balls sucked or licked. From 15-16 I've been having my balls sucked or licked while masturbating. When I'm with my girl I get hard sometimes when we start making out, but when we begin to have sex my penis goes limp. When she gives me oral sex my penis still does not get fully erected and just stays limp, but when I am masturbating while having my balls sucked or licked or watching porn, my penis has no problems with staying hard even if I leave it alone for a few mins then get back into it. I have managed to get it in while it was limp, and as we began to have sex it would get hard but when it slips out and it doesn't get put back in immediately, it goes limp again, or if we are changing positions and I don't hurry up and get it back in it goes limp. We would be having sex for about 15 mins and I havn't ejaculated or even got the urge to, to be honest it didn't feel very good at all, not that it was uncomfortable but I just didn't get any pleasure from it which would lead to me to go limp while I'm inside.
Also I have been masturbating while high off of weed while having my balls sucked which would cause me to have intense ejaculations, so I was wondering if that would also effect me while having sex.
So I guess my question out of all that is, because I have been masturbating in such an extreme way is it affecting me from getting aroused easily and therefore affecting my sex life? Or is it that I've been masturbating to much and now my penis is broken? If you have any info that can help me out please post a reply, thanks.
Also I have been masturbating while high off of weed while having my balls sucked which would cause me to have intense ejaculations, so I was wondering if that would also effect me while having sex.
So I guess my question out of all that is, because I have been masturbating in such an extreme way is it affecting me from getting aroused easily and therefore affecting my sex life? Or is it that I've been masturbating to much and now my penis is broken? If you have any info that can help me out please post a reply, thanks.
hi im also 16 but im a girl ,my boyfried tends to be more in the mood if he doesnt play with his self for a few days you may be not interested in sexor masterbating because you do it so much but it doesnt mean that its broken ....watching porn would make you stay hard because you would be watching some thing maybe if your girlfriend performs sexy dances or plays with her self for you it may help just try and focus on you and your girlfriend instead of you and your porn ad see how it feels for a while ...sometimes after ejaculating so much u would loose intrest same as when i have an orgasm the day before we have sex i wouldnt be too botherd about it. you shouldnt have sex all the time or masterbate try only having sex twice a week . and have oral sex before and see how you like your girl to masterbate while you watch its good fun if you experiment with things . me and my boyfriend have been together 2 years now so we are comfortable together and have sex toys and sexy outfits for me so also you could try things like that. that also sets the mood. it may also be because of the porn you are watching that is what you exspect to see just remember not all girls are the same so just be grateful that you have the bond that you do and she is comfortable with having sex with youu..
Also drugs can effect you...i know that extacy cocain and things like that can but weed tends to make me hornier lol
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Also drugs can effect you...i know that extacy cocain and things like that can but weed tends to make me hornier lol
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If you can't get it hard for a girl then you must be gay. Try it with a guy. btw you are not a virgin if you have sex with someone.