Hi my name is urwa...its been 2 days tht m very tensed me n my bf were having oral sex God knows wot he wondered of he took a match stick n tried to tickle my vaginal hole during tht by accidentaly he inserted it inside n after few secs i started to bleed n it ws not more thn 2-3 drops...now m worried tht is my hymen ruptured or not n if yes den fully or he just damaged it coz after dat i had no spotting or anything else jus had a lil pain whr he poked tht stick accidentally...n dis too tht if i do intercourse on my wedding nite will i bleed???? I never had any kinda penetration before plz help me out of it
a good way to tell if your hymen is ruptured is if you can stick your middle finger or 2 fingers (depending how big your fingers are) up your hole, it usually means it is ruptured. it isn't bad, as it happens to everyone whether through sex or playing lots of sport. Hope this helped :)