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I am a 19 year old female and have been with my boyfriend almost 3 years, but also knew eachother a long time before.
We have something really great going on and to be honest, I really can see a future with him. We both have good careers
And are luckily working our way up withing them and were at a really good place. We have talked about me moving in
With him in the past (he lives with family but has 100% freedom and privacy)
But I have always just said I can't. this is because I feel this may result in me and my family falling out excessively over
This decision. They have absolutely nothing against my partner and think the world of him but they see it as ''why move
Out when u have a room for your self here...'' Etc... My family and I have been falling out more lately and I feel like its
Because I'm not happy at home. I have more confidence when with my partner, I feel happier and that's where I want to
Be. However my family will see me moving out to my partners as their fault and I'm scared something huge might happen
That can't be fixed. I don't want to fall out with them, but want to do what I feel's right for me. What do I do? I'm so stuck
Right now! X x x x

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You need to do what makes you happy but you also need to respect your family's feelings. Most likely whats happening is they are scared of losing you, that if you move out you won't come back. You need to sit down and have a serious conversation with them. Let them know how you are feeling and listen to their feelings as well. Maybe if you respect and understand their feelings they'll see how grown and mature you have become and be ok with you starting you're own life. Good luck!
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Thank u for the quick response :-) ... I completely understand and that is the best solution, however I know my family and I
Truly believe they will just take ofense with my decision. I am going to talk things through with my partner tonight and see what I really
Want to do before making a rapid decision. Thank you for your help x x x x
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