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Now at 23 I just found out I have genital herpes and was completely devastated. Me and my partner both. I had a horrible breakout 4 months ago inside my urethra and man it fealt like I had glass lodged in there. No breakout since. No external blisters or anything.
During the breakout though I had this extreme nerve pain in my left leg that I recall having as a child due to me thinking it was my shorts inseam rubbing on my leg forcing me to buy like 10 pairs of shorts.... then it just went away but no external outbreak. My doctor says that's normal with herpes but indicates to me that I've had it since I was like 7 or 8. How the hell do you get herpes at that age? I wasn't sexually active until 19-20ish. None of my partners reported any issues but my current GF had what looked like an outbreak but they can't tell. Her doctor thinks she gave it to me because of she has hemroids and my doctor thinks I gave it to her. Doesn't matter at this point but either way it's not fun.
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I had my first outbreak in 2010 and have never had one since. I had children in 2011 and 2014
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Last year I was given Herpes by my ex fiancé.
It has been almost a year now but the thought of never being able to love someone again little known ever have a family is heart wrenching. I am 21 and have been dealing with it well. I continue my education and work as normally would.
What are some ways you get over the fear. I myself haven’t hugged my mother in over a year just because I feel like a walking disease and have a fear of passing it and ruining anyone’s else’s life. I feel like my life ended last year and now I am just living the after math waiting for the day god says I have had enough and is ready to take me.
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Hey, I’m so sorry your feeling like this. I unfortunately have had herpes for about 11 Years. It started with out breaks every month and now touch wood I haven’t had it for 2 years. My ex long term partner has just phoned me up and told me he’s now got it. I was always told by the drs that I could only pass it on when I have symptoms or open blisters. So now I feel horrific. Telling new partners is awful. You feel dirty, unworthy and damn right c**p. You’ll find some one out there that will be understanding. Just be honest.
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