Labiaplasty, my labia minora are 2 inches long?

same yo, i'm 15 and have had sex multiple times, my sexual partners didn't seem to care but i sure do, its thick, and heeelllla f*****g noticeable. my best friend of 13 years whom ive shown everything to, has never seen it. during sex every single time all i could think about is how frikkin big it is, and how they're all going to tell their friends i have f*****g beef curtains. it just keeps growing & growing, it's weird as hell, my clitoris legit hangs so far down, i'm considering the surgery but i'm broke as hell, f**k man. it's my biggest insecurity and whenever i go to the washroom i look down and get upset.

wishing all you girls luck, it's really difficult.

omg we all need to be friends wtf my labia are long as sh*t and it makes me so insecure

well first of all, the procedure shouldn't cost more than $3000. Also, I wouldn't do it. Mine are bigger than 99% of you guys and until I watched a lot of porn, I didn't even know it was considered long. No one commented on it and my sex life was great....but then I watched porn and it really affected me. I am a middle aged woman now and even though I have the money to do it, I don't think I will. I saw the before and after pictures and they cut off so much, everyone looks the same....no thanks. I want genitals with come character! You guys could well regret changing it later on....especially since some men love big lips and say it makes the sex feel better. Guys in high school and not experienced...all they know is porn c**p.

If so many of you have long labia, don't you think its normal??!? IT IS NORMAL! Please do not believe the plastic surgeons and the porn industry geez. Get the book "Petals" or "Femalia" ...you will see what real labia are supposed to look like!

YOU ARE NOT ALONE. I feel so much better knowing I am not alone... Mine dangle and are dark as well, I haven’t measured them but I would say I am 1-2 inches for sure (maybe longer? They’re definitely longer when stretched, I can see when laying down). I’m 20, also attending college, and although I’ve had sex before, I rarely have sex with anyone because I am so insecure down there. Even when I did have sex, that insecurity was constantly on my mind. I’m very afraid of guys telling other guys, I hang out with a lot of guys who can gossip just like girls.
The guy that I am talking to now, we’ve only cuddled, but I’m too afraid to go further because I am unconfident.

I’ve finally told my mom recently that I really want to have this surgery, but she tried to reassure me that I am fine how I am and that the procedure is too risky, so she’s against it. I completely understand what she means, and it helps me rethink that this isn’t something needed, however, I will still go back once in awhile searching about labiaplasty.
I even had the guts to finally tell ONE of my girl friends, and she was like, “I didn’t know girls had vaginas that long... mine’s like a barbie’s” which completely shattered my confidence even though I know she didn’t mean to (she is a good, caring friend, I don’t want to portray her as not).
I even saw on snapchat (social media) of a guy my age talking about how he would pay for a girl to have labiaplasty because he doesn’t want to deal with it, and the girl recording it was laughing. My first inital reaction was damn... but then I realized he’s being disrespectful and hurting many people.
I understand people have “preferences”, but I think people need to be educated more on diversity. Pornography is commonly seen and it sets a false “realistic” image of what “normal” is.

Have you ever seen those “in movies” vs “reality” memes? It may be funny, but it’s true. Many people are brainwashed to believe the “in moves” scenes are real, but it’s not...

I am trying to save up money for labiaplasty, but with school loans, I won’t be having it soon probably, which sucks because the recovery process also talks a long time, and I don’t want to keep wasting time... But slowly I am learning to be comfortable in my body, and also admire the other parts on me.

Everyone, please know you are beautiful and unique and there are many, many girls out there who can UNDERSTAND and RELATE. I completely understand how devastated you feel, and I am so sorry you feel insecure. There are guys who will not care!!!! I promise you that. I honestly think the problem is how society brainwashed people to believe it should look a certain way, but remember, a lot of things online nowadays are portrayed in a way to seem “naturally perfect”, when it isn’t. Not saying cosmetic surgery is bad, I’ve had a cosmetic procedure done myself, but please do not believe that this is real and this is how it should be. I always prefered natural on others, but because I am so hard on myself, I got a cosmetic surgery before.

Do I regret having cosmetic surgery? No. I still prefer natural feel and look, but I’m glad I went through with it, because it overall made me confident.
Do I recommend it to others?
Most likely sure, I understand insecurities and I encourage people to follow their happiness, BUT before you think about surgery, you have to remember that even if you don’t have it, it’s not the end of the world. There are many other things to be worried about besides appearance I promise you. Please don’t forget to self love and value yourself.
And if you do go through with it, don’t go with the expectation of the result being perfect.
Perfect is an exaggeration.

Ultimately, it should be about CONFIDENCE, with or without surgery. The beautiful thing in this that I see, are people coming to an understanding, that’s how it should be.
You are not alone.

I WOULD ALSO LIKE TO ADD, that even without cosmetic surgery, I was still pretty. I’m not trying to be boastful, but guys would still find me attractive, because I was still confident in other ways about me and personality is also very important. Cosmetic procedures, I don’t want to bash people who had it, I was blessed to have an understanding family (we all have insecurities), but you have to remember that you are completely fine and beautiful right now where you are at. We have inhancements in our appearance like with makeup, but without it, we are still beautiful naturally. Please don’t focus on one little area, but marvel and appreciate the other things about you. That is so important. I want everyone to please remember that.

Same but you just kind of feel like guys prefer smaller you know ? I have gotten way more comfortable through doing research and stuff...if you want them smaller than labiaplasty isn't that much but it's pretty pricy but all young women such as me should feel good about there selves !