Hello im a 15 year old and my freinds tend to ask me alot of questions about sex for some odd reason even though they watch more porn and sexul stuff then me
but some have been asking me how do you last longer in bed?
you know last longer before you have your orgasm?
i was told it was something called 'blue balls"
and its when your masterbating and about to cum and you stop thinking sexual and lose your erection and wait 10 minutes and keep doing this for awhile and you will last longer.
but i thought blue balls was a pain in your testicals becauce of pressure....
but some have been asking me how do you last longer in bed?
you know last longer before you have your orgasm?
i was told it was something called 'blue balls"
and its when your masterbating and about to cum and you stop thinking sexual and lose your erection and wait 10 minutes and keep doing this for awhile and you will last longer.
but i thought blue balls was a pain in your testicals becauce of pressure....
Hi. Good questions!
The technique you are describing is usually called "edging". You get yourself close to having an orgasm, and stop. Then start again...repeat it until you just can't wait any longer and the orgasm you have is usually much more powerful (and messier) than usual.
"Blue balls" is kind of an ache that typically would occur if you did, for example, the edging technique, but never let yourself orgasm. So your body is ready to do, has started ramping up sperm and semen production - then never had a chance to get rid of it through an ejaculation...so the 'back up' can cause an ache or pain in your testicles. I have never personally experienced this though - so apparently it does not happen to everyone!
I hope that helps!
The technique you are describing is usually called "edging". You get yourself close to having an orgasm, and stop. Then start again...repeat it until you just can't wait any longer and the orgasm you have is usually much more powerful (and messier) than usual.
"Blue balls" is kind of an ache that typically would occur if you did, for example, the edging technique, but never let yourself orgasm. So your body is ready to do, has started ramping up sperm and semen production - then never had a chance to get rid of it through an ejaculation...so the 'back up' can cause an ache or pain in your testicles. I have never personally experienced this though - so apparently it does not happen to everyone!
I hope that helps!
Edging CAn help you last longer w/ a partner