Lesbian dating a straight man.

Hello have Yu told the other person how Yu truly feel yet

Do what will make you happy. But don't play with his feelings.. he is so much in love with you and you know.
Dear, take the right decision okay ....

Wow can I relate. I am a male who is in love with a lesbian. We, like you, are best friends, although our sex is great. I can taste her orgasm and the passion is intense. But she wI'll never love me like a woman. She will never be in love with me, like a woman. I have offerred her a polyamorous relation so as to fulfill her need for a woman.

I don't want to lose her, but she makes it clear once she finds and falls for another woman, she and I are done romantically.

So I let her go. I can't be just a friend. I can't watch her fall in love and pull away. So, I left. My advise, quick pull of the bandaid. No let it linger, it will never get easier.

How can a lesbian date a straight man?

HI there I am a die hard of lesbians

It is a cover up.

Hi im in a similar position can we talk private pls ? Thanks

This could be the real reason why so many of us straight guys are still single today which this really does have a lot to do with it unfortunately.

theres no reason a gay woman cant end up with a straight man like you mentioned BUT
you need to be absolutely honest to him about your feelings and work through what to do about them together.

I'm going through the same thing. But just can't let her go.

Kinda confused why you labelled the previous responds as ...jerks? They essentially said the same as you Michael-- that she needs to communicate openly & honestly about her concerns.

Perhaps you're feeling triggered/insicure as a man married to a lesbian yourself. DID YOU NOT HEAR THIS WOMAN SAY SHE WAS NOOOOOOT COMFORTABLE BEING PHYSICAL WITH HER BEST FRIEND.

And similarly to him, you ironically overlooked that part to the greater male-charged objective.

Food for thought to the poster: If your Bestie 'loves' you so much, then how come he hasn't picked up on your discomfort around getting physical? Sounds like he's just deeply in pursuit of what outcome works best for him...not for you.

What kind of edvince giving this women she been with this man for years. She have to stick it threw and accept this man who he is. She love him and he love her.

Is that even possible?

Hi, let me tell y'all my story , i am a gay guy and this past 2 yrs i am in relationship with a girl, and that's not all - she's also lesbian.(omg,i know :) ).I'm 2 years older than her. In my past i dated guys and she was dating girls. i even talked bout engaging with 1 guy, just to find out few weeks later he was cheating on me. after him i had two relationship with guys,1st 3 months, 2nd two months, then i met her.I went to park to write some code for web app(i often felt more concentrated&inspired while visiting parks) when a beagle came to me,so i played with him a little, and then a girl approached us,about my age,with long dark brown undercut hair and blue eyes,telling the dog to stop bothering me, but i said no bother at all, even invited her to sit next to me so i can play a little longer with the dog before they go home. She accepted and we were talking(mostly bout animals) and introduced ourselves and told some basic info,after that parted ways.She seemed kind and warm i had a feeling we'll become friends. Few days later i saw her on 1 party and we chatted a little more,and arranged a meeting in cafe,since we had much in common(we're both childish lol..) and she didn't have a lot of friends. We had great time chatting, laughing,getting to know each other better,and there i revealed her i'm gay and she revealed she's lesbian. i often saw her in park and she stopped by to chat, so yes i was right - we became friends. But as time was passing i realised i was falling in love with her. it was new and strange to me,so surprising,i felt like i didn't even know myself anymore. Spent too much hours thinking bout us tgthr and crying over a thought she would never return the feeling :'( , and also she wouldn't believe me i like her cause she knows i'm gay.Told all that stuff to 1 cousin,explained him her orientation and he said tell her that,u have to try. it's possible,after all you're gay and like her.But i was sceptic, asserting it's 99% sure she'll reject,on what he answered but it's still 1% she won't.What to say, smartass lol.. We continued our friendship,and for a while i didn't do anthng,but felt nervous and electro-shocked while near her, so 1 day i decided to tell her.We were in bar on balcony,my cousin with us,who i signalised to get lost for a while. And then i just told her all, and on my surprise - she said she feels the same ! :D and how she was sad cause she thought she couldn't hope of anthng from me. I was so happy i almost cried like a banshee :'). So was she. Same night i asked her to be my gf and she said yes

Very impossible though.