Hi,
so me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now and we've decided that we want to have sex. I know what most people are going to say: 14??! That's very young. I know we're young but I also know that I'm ready and he knows he's ready and he's my first love. I've asked 3 friends-3 close friends to give their opinion. one of them said that I was not emotionally ready, it makes things complicated and i shouldn't do it but I know I'm ready and I'm curious as to how it would make things complicated. This friend has had sex with multiple guys is the same age as me and wasn't in a relationship with any of those guys. What should I do? I know I'm ready and I'm fully educated sex and contraception.
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If you want to do it and you know you will enjoy it then I would say " go for it"
What I would advise though is to be PREPARED - ie read up about sex, learn your body and what makes you have those pleasurable sensations, talk to your bf about protection and contraception, look up about STDs etc etc.
If you prepare yourself and take precautions then you have no need to worry about anything.
Yes you will have emotional feelings, you will get closer to your boyfriend because sex is the glue that makes relationships stronger. Sharing each other and enjoying those intimate feelings and closeness - emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually is a mind blowing experience.
One thing you need to understand is that relationships may not last and may fizzle out after a while. This is the nature of most relationships. Please don't use sex as a "form of currency" to ensure commitment. That is awful. As long as he is there for you for a period of time and you are okay with that then I cant see any reason why you cant have sex with him.
Being emotionally ready is over rated. You seem to be level headed and I guess ready in many if not all aspects to embark on a sexual relationship.
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