I’m a 19yr old lesbian and I’ve lost my sex drive quite a bit. Me and my girlfriend ordered a strapless dildo quite some time ago now and we’ve used it every time ever since. Even though we love the strapless dildo it has “taken my sex drive away.” Ever since we first used it we fell in love with it because it makes me the male that I want to be sexually without the actual package permanently. It also helps get rid of my “guy urges” as I like to refer them as. We discovered that after using the strapless dildo I didn’t enjoy her going down on me or fingering me. She tells me that she misses it an I try to let her do it to satisfy her but I have to fake my reactions an its gets to the point that she can just tell I’m not enjoying it and she’ll ask me if it’s doing anything and I don’t even try to hide it anymore because she already knows I don’t like it anymore. We recently started putting a condom on the strapless dildo because we noticed when I do orgasm she can feel the cum inside of her, which has helped out a lot for the both of us. Recently we have both noticed I have been having a hard time having an orgasm. This has made both of use very sexually frustrated. I have noticed I have to force myself in the mood to be able to be sexually active with her. I don’t know if it’s me or if it’s her or if we’ve just lost the spark an it’s killing the sex life. I get turned on with porn so I know I don’t have an issue with that department. I don’t know maybe I should just try a medication to enhance the mood.
what u should do is get lorion or vasline and rub it on eachother and put a hair spray bottle or sit on a bike helmate and put a fake penis through the hol tand go up down side side hope i helped