Hi,
I am a 15 male boy uncircumsized(that means I have my foreskin still, right)? and I masturbate, but not jerking off. What I do is lie in my bed, and put my hands against my penis while lieing down and just push against my penis and that is how I masturbate...I usually do it while soft for some reason I cannot do it hard.
Now, I tried doing it hard. I tried jerking off, but it did not feel good. I got hard...but when I went up and down my shaft it did not feel good. Did I somehow screw myself up by masturbating soft? Or am I 'jerking off' wrong. I am nervous for when I have sex when older, it wont feel good.
Also, I cannot get turned on by looking at girls. I look at girls and feel a little bit, but I don't get excited as much like I'm really use to. Only 'new' ideas get me exited. When I masturbate (mentioned 1st paragraph) It doesn't feel good either, I just masturbate to masturbate, not because I am turned on. Should I masturbate when turned on? Oh I'm not gay, I know some people would say not getting 'excited' off girls may mean that I'm gay, well I tried looking at guys to prove that and I didn't feel anything. It isn't me. I know I am straight, anyways that isn't the real problem.
When I think of sex, it does not get me excited, tried porn, doesn't get me exited either. Is something wrong with me? Should I stop masturbating for a bit, take a break and start 'new'.
If you need any more info let me know.
Thank you.
I am a 15 male boy uncircumsized(that means I have my foreskin still, right)? and I masturbate, but not jerking off. What I do is lie in my bed, and put my hands against my penis while lieing down and just push against my penis and that is how I masturbate...I usually do it while soft for some reason I cannot do it hard.
Now, I tried doing it hard. I tried jerking off, but it did not feel good. I got hard...but when I went up and down my shaft it did not feel good. Did I somehow screw myself up by masturbating soft? Or am I 'jerking off' wrong. I am nervous for when I have sex when older, it wont feel good.
Also, I cannot get turned on by looking at girls. I look at girls and feel a little bit, but I don't get excited as much like I'm really use to. Only 'new' ideas get me exited. When I masturbate (mentioned 1st paragraph) It doesn't feel good either, I just masturbate to masturbate, not because I am turned on. Should I masturbate when turned on? Oh I'm not gay, I know some people would say not getting 'excited' off girls may mean that I'm gay, well I tried looking at guys to prove that and I didn't feel anything. It isn't me. I know I am straight, anyways that isn't the real problem.
When I think of sex, it does not get me excited, tried porn, doesn't get me exited either. Is something wrong with me? Should I stop masturbating for a bit, take a break and start 'new'.
If you need any more info let me know.
Thank you.
is it possible I 'killed' the 'nerves' on my penis :-(?
Hmmm...very interesting...
1st - yea...uncircumcised means still having foreskin!
I don't think there is any way you damaged anything if I am understand what you have been doing correctly... If you're not hard or getting good feelings from it then you need to find another way! Have you ever had an orgasm or ejaculated?
You asked about doing it when your turned on...yes...that generally is when you jerk off! Next time you feel that way, and have an erection, find some privacy and try it.
The part about not responding to girls - there isn't much to say about that really. Everyone reacts to different 'stimuli'. You may just not be at that point in your life yet?????
Anyway - you are going to have to figure out yourself what works for you. Try to avoid labeling yourself...you are too young for that. WHATEVER works for you (guys, girls, palm trees...lol...whatever) if only your business! But - you owe it to yourself to find out so that you can enjoy what is a natural human need!
Good luck to you dude! Let me know if this helps at all - or if you have any more specific questions!
1st - yea...uncircumcised means still having foreskin!
I don't think there is any way you damaged anything if I am understand what you have been doing correctly... If you're not hard or getting good feelings from it then you need to find another way! Have you ever had an orgasm or ejaculated?
You asked about doing it when your turned on...yes...that generally is when you jerk off! Next time you feel that way, and have an erection, find some privacy and try it.
The part about not responding to girls - there isn't much to say about that really. Everyone reacts to different 'stimuli'. You may just not be at that point in your life yet?????
Anyway - you are going to have to figure out yourself what works for you. Try to avoid labeling yourself...you are too young for that. WHATEVER works for you (guys, girls, palm trees...lol...whatever) if only your business! But - you owe it to yourself to find out so that you can enjoy what is a natural human need!
Good luck to you dude! Let me know if this helps at all - or if you have any more specific questions!
Okay thank you.
When I touch my...thing when hard there isn't sensativity but when touching while soft there is.
Is that normal?
When I touch my...thing when hard there isn't sensativity but when touching while soft there is.
Is that normal?
I'll be honest with you - that is something I have never heard of. Listen...this is something that is clearly concerning you, and I really have to advise you to talk to your doctor about it. That is why they get paid the big bucks! If you are uncomfortable talking to your parents (which is actually a good starting point) then I think they will understand if you ask them to make you a doctors appointment because you want to talk to him/her about something private. I would understand - and not be nosy!
I also use to think masturbation was bad, but then I stopped that type of thinking. I think I saw another post like that on here..it was old. Anyways I don't have the same level of hornyness. I think I have some mental block, I feel it's okay but I haven't unblocked it. Any idea on howto unblock it?
Yeah even i faced this problem stop masturbatein...for a while....get ur self relaxed chill pill wit ya buddys....
Masturbation provides for the need to ejaculate semen, is safe, healthy, pleasant, fun, harmless, contributes to prostate health, relieves sexual tension and pain from overfilled seminal vesicles. Masturbation aids sleep when done before bedtime. Frequent masturbation prevents wet dreams. Masturbation leaves one with a feeling of relaxation, contentment, and well-being.
Masturbation should be done in a place where one has privacy. There is no lower or upper age limit for masturbation. Some pre-school boys masturbate and some elderly people masturbate at least into their seventies.
One may masturbate as much or as little as one wishes, however one may experience temporary sexual exhaustion due to very frequent masturbation.
The movable, internally-lubricated, nerve-laden erogenous foreskin and its gliding action is an important aid to masturbation.
Circumcision was introduced to unforeskin the penis and make it impossible to masturbate. It failed to stop masturbation but it made it harder to do and perhaps less enjoyable.
How one does it depends on whether one has an internally lubricated movable foreskin that glides up and down the shaft or whether you have been unforeskinned.
If you are foreskinned, then all you need to do is glide your foreskin back and forth. It is not necessary to retract the foreskin. The foreskin is internally lubricated with lymphatic fluid and glides without friction. The numerous nerves inside the foreskin are stimulated by the motion and generate pleasurable sensations. Foreskinned males must be careful not to tear the frenulum.
Long and vigorous masturbation can cause the foreskin to become edematous and swollen, which is painless and not a cause for alarm. The edema usually goes down within about 24 hours. Pulling back too hard is apt to stretch the frenulum and may tear it.
If you are unforeskinned and the skin is taut and immovable, then you will need some lubrication and you need to slide your hand up and down the shaft. You will likely injure yourself without lubricant. Friction irritation is common when a male without foreskin masturbates without lubricant. Some lubricants are baby oil, vegetable oil, personal lubricant, soapy water, and saliva.
It is common for an unforeskinned male, who has been deprived of his internally lubricated foreskin, to have irritation if he does not apply external lubricant.
After a male ejaculates, there is normally a “refractory period” before he can have sex again.
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Masturbation does NOT shorten your life.
Masturbation does NOT cause insanity.
Masturbation does NOT affect your brain cells.
Masturbation does NOT cause memory loss.
Masturbation does NOT cause you to go blind.
Masturbation does NOT cause eye problems.
Masturbation does NOT cause eye blink.
Masturbation does NOT cause blurred vision.
Masturbation does NOT cause eye floaters.
Masturbation does NOT cause sleeplessness.
Masturbation does NOT cause hair to grow in your palms.
Masturbation does NOT cause hair loss.
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Masturbation does NOT cause erectile dysfunction (ED).
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Masturbation does NOT cause premature ejaculation.
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Masturbation does NOT decrease stamina.
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Masturbation does NOT stop muscle growth.
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Masturbation does NOT reduce muscle mass.
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Masturbation does NOT affect the physical appearance.
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Masturbation does NOT cause warts.
Masturbation does NOT cause weight gain.
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Masturbation does NOT cause pimples.
Masturbation does NOT cause acne.
Masturbation does NOT cause wrinkles on your face.
Masturbation does NOT cause loss of blood.
Masturbation does NOT cause blood to flow from the urethra.
Masturbation does NOT cause your body to smell like a fish.
Masturbation does NOT make your bones softer.
Masturbation does NOT slow the growth of your penis.
Masturbation does NOT make your penis weak.
Masturbation does NOT make your penis larger.
Masturbation does NOT make your penis smaller.
Masturbation does NOT make your penis wrinkly.
Masturbation does NOT cause skin wrinkles.
Masturbation does NOT cause bent penis.
Masturbation does NOT release hormones.
Masturbation does NOT cause premature ejaculation.
Masturbation does NOT make you sexually weak.
Masturbation does NOT cause infertility.
Masturbation does NOT make sex less enjoyable.
Masturbation does NOT cause nerve problems.
Masturbation does NOT cause memory problems.
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Masturbation does NOT cause hair fall.
Masturbation does NOT cause cancer.
Masturbation does NOT cause infection.
Masturbation does NOT cause death.
oh mi god im ab out your age and i dont know what you mean when you say masturbate but for me i put two fingers against the head of my penis im also uncircumsized and i push against it. Real masturbation like rubbing up and down doesnt make me feel good instead it just hurts because my foreskin is tight. I have bheard other people say in the shower or bath just pull on your foreskin for like 2 minutes each to time to stretch it until your satisfied.