I have a few questions and it would be very appreciated for any reply's. I have a 11yr old step-daughter who is a only child, She is very babified and doesnt act her age at all. My husband and his ex-wife are also only children. Anyway am i being anull because i dont wont her eating in the living room, because she spills everything and her dad doesnt think she should be made clean it up.He says that her room is her's and if she dont want to clean it thats her business, She is very over weight because she refuses to play or should i say kids refuse to play with her because she is so selfish. She never gets diciplined for anything, he doesnt believe in it.. She refuses to wipe her self after using the restroom and stinks from not keeping herself clean, but again her dad said she would grow out of it.. She follows him to the bathroom ,to bed,and has to be laying on him constantly. He was sleeping with her until about a year ago and i stopped that , or it would still be going on..And he doesnt want me saying anything to her at all..I have just got a very uneasy feeliing about all her actions and his, But he said i was just to strict and i needed to let her be a kid. The child is 11 and acts 2. and he says she is his best friend! Am i missing something here or is something very wrong about this picture? and am i wrong for having rules to go by? Im getting ready to divorce him over this . He has been married 5 times and now i know why! Any comments welcomed