You're talking about weed like it's heroin or some kind of serious drug. Weed is a MEDICINE, it is prescribed to many people for many issues and as far as I know there are no serious withdrawal symptoms from quitting except for maybe a headache etc... People do not change personalities or attitudes after smoking weed, they are the same person and some people need the medicine to help with certain behavioral or pain issues, you need to stop freaking out over a little pot and let him smoke it, besides wasn't the sex great? I have found weed to be a wonderful aphrodiciac and if you can stop to get your panties wedged out from your butt cheeks long enough maybe you should smoke a joint with him and then have some amazing sex and you'd lighten up a little, don't give that feeling about betrayed over a little pot, heroin or cocaine I can understand, but pot?
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First off, I have smoked pot for over 10 years now, i recently quit simply due to the unavailability of access from where i moved to. You are making too big a deal about his smoking habits, pot is a recreational drug that has huge medicinal benefits.; Yes it may alter his mood an yes it helps with certain typesof depression and YES it is less harmful than beer or liquor, just be happy he isn't on one of those life destroyers. Now if you really have a huge problem with this perhaps you should ask him tocut it down a little or maybe only smoke on the weekends or something. I know if my girlfriend forced me to choose between marijuana and her, I would probably choose her but I would also resent her for it for a very long time and that might fester into soething where I thought she was trying to control me. I don't deal well with peopletrying to control me, but thats just me personally. Either way if he quits totally it should be of his own choosing, marijuana has no physically adictive chemicals in it, only mood enhancing ones. There will be no shakes no real withdrawal symptoms only him wanting to feel "not bored".
oming from someone who can identify with him....I hope this helped...
oming from someone who can identify with him....I hope this helped...
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i understand you are aggainst smoking pot . but he wasn't stoned all the time , and you remember everything you do when you're high , it does affect your mood but in a good way , you're only high for about an hour if you're lucky mostly less than hour , afterards your still happier and are more afble to express your feelings it makes you less shy etc. i woukd let him go on smoking becouse he really loves you ( if he didn't he wouldn't give up the pot ) . smoking pot doesn't have many down sides , becouse it is healtier than cigarettes , the only bad thing you can get is throwing up if you smoked to much but if he only smokes 2 or three a day that won't happen . it is impossible to overdose on pot . If he is treuly happier with the pot you need to let him smoke it , but tell him you wan't him to stay with that and don't go to hard drugs becouse that is far worse , i know you're having a hard time with him smoking it but it's not that bad , that pot doesn't make him who he is but you have to understand he wants to make you happy but to make you happy he has to be happy to .
personaly i think the only bad thing about pot is that it is illegal
personaly i think the only bad thing about pot is that it is illegal
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look as a fellow weedsmoker the only reason ur love life changed is because u made him quit u made him choose between weed and uwell he chose you no sh*t but he not gonna feel normal i havent quit but i been out for like 3 days i havent been right since i stopped because when u do it for so long u dnt do it to get high and u dnt forget what u do either i dnt even know where u came up with that all this man wants to do is make u happy and if the only reason y u dnt want him smokin is because its a drug its no good for you well guess what ur wrong again and i dnt mean to sound rude but if you love someone dnt u love them for who they are not for the actions they do and besides when he was smokin u didnt have a frikkin clue id he was high or not so i dnt even see what ur problem is. maybe u just need to get high with him
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This is absolutely Ridiculous in the Extreme!
My thoughts are how dare you judge him that way, how dare you try to invalidate his feelings for you because he smokes pot as if that makes what he feels for you unreal! Ludicrous! Pot IS fully OK medically and thousands of people use it for that purpose all across the USA, its only illegal because of J Edager Hoover and Dupont, because it interfered with the profit they expected for the chemical process to create white paper from wood pulp. Had they not lobbied to make it illegal the new form of processing Hemp automatically would have wiped out their investment plans, not to mention take on and take down big cotton! That's the ONLY REASON it ever became illegal, and every law after that is MOOT and worthless!
And every opinion that has been formed on this basis is inVALID, such as your own! You have shamed him into trying to be something he is not to sustain your love; you're are blackmailing him to get what you want and its sickening!
Its you that should be ASHAMED of yourself, for being ignorant and inconsiderate. You deserve no affection or attention until you give it back to him!
BAD FORM: BOO! And to all the IGNORANT people that speak against pot and talk about people just trying to justify, go get an education you buffoons!
My thoughts are how dare you judge him that way, how dare you try to invalidate his feelings for you because he smokes pot as if that makes what he feels for you unreal! Ludicrous! Pot IS fully OK medically and thousands of people use it for that purpose all across the USA, its only illegal because of J Edager Hoover and Dupont, because it interfered with the profit they expected for the chemical process to create white paper from wood pulp. Had they not lobbied to make it illegal the new form of processing Hemp automatically would have wiped out their investment plans, not to mention take on and take down big cotton! That's the ONLY REASON it ever became illegal, and every law after that is MOOT and worthless!
And every opinion that has been formed on this basis is inVALID, such as your own! You have shamed him into trying to be something he is not to sustain your love; you're are blackmailing him to get what you want and its sickening!
Its you that should be ASHAMED of yourself, for being ignorant and inconsiderate. You deserve no affection or attention until you give it back to him!
BAD FORM: BOO! And to all the IGNORANT people that speak against pot and talk about people just trying to justify, go get an education you buffoons!
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Im one of those who successfully quit smoking cigarettes 3 years ago...and YES, the withdrawls were the same as your husband along w/ my moods..and my sexual drive...It can take WEEKS, even months to feel 'normal' again...I guess I started to 'rebound' about 2-3 moths...I felt like "jumping anyones bones" :-)
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I'm a heavy pot smoker and have an incredibly high sex drive. I know that if it was something i felt i needed to hide from my fiance, and one day she found out and blew up on me i'd be regretful from my actions, but also annoyed that I was being judged in such a harsh manner. THC this, Weed bad that... Fact of the matter is, it's a plant that grows from the earth and has been sensationalized by television, politicians and educators ever since the mid 1900's along with all other forums of media propaganda. It is no worse than going to the bar for a few drinks, or having 3 shots of expresso in your morning coffee. Some people just enjoy smoking a joint rather than having a glass of wine.
I seriously doubt that it has anything to do with her persona. After smoking myself daily for 10 years, my love, affection and time with my girl is still of the utmost most importance. He shouldn't have to feel like a 13 year old kid, hiding behind the school with his buddies getting caught by his mother. That's what's happened now, that's how he feels, and that's why he's lost his balls currently. He is annoyed and irritable because you have blown things out of proportion, much like many other people in his life who have been opposed to his decision to smoking a flower...
I assure you his feelings are real. The time you spent together and experiences together are not things that have passed him by. After 15 years of smoking, the effects are nothing like that of a highschool stonner. It probably helps him to relax, have fun with you, joke, open up and speak about feelings, feel more spiritual, and admire, idolize and worship you more sexually.
If you feel your relationship has been a waste because of him smoking, then end it. He would probably be happier being able to puff away on a fatty with a girl who can appreciate him for who he is, and doesn't need to hide a non issue.
I seriously doubt that it has anything to do with her persona. After smoking myself daily for 10 years, my love, affection and time with my girl is still of the utmost most importance. He shouldn't have to feel like a 13 year old kid, hiding behind the school with his buddies getting caught by his mother. That's what's happened now, that's how he feels, and that's why he's lost his balls currently. He is annoyed and irritable because you have blown things out of proportion, much like many other people in his life who have been opposed to his decision to smoking a flower...
I assure you his feelings are real. The time you spent together and experiences together are not things that have passed him by. After 15 years of smoking, the effects are nothing like that of a highschool stonner. It probably helps him to relax, have fun with you, joke, open up and speak about feelings, feel more spiritual, and admire, idolize and worship you more sexually.
If you feel your relationship has been a waste because of him smoking, then end it. He would probably be happier being able to puff away on a fatty with a girl who can appreciate him for who he is, and doesn't need to hide a non issue.
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pot heads are the only ones that stick up for pot heads. You think it does no harm. What about a women working 2 jobs 70 hours a week to pay the bills while the pot head is stoned out of his face lofing around not trying to contribute. So you think it causes no adverse effect. My ex has no money, no home, no security and now he has no me....why because I refuse to support him. He makes more money than I do but is penniless. Guess he shouldn't be going to the mall to visit his drug dealer. Ya think......Reality check! Life is not about Pot.
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Ok, I must admit that I am confused by the original post: your fairytail relationship ended abruptly when your boyfriend ended his 15 year marijuana habit, during which time you never even realized that he was using marijuana. My question is, why is god´s name would you ask him to stop using marijuana? I assume from your post that you know very little about weed, and surely have never tried it (this is not a bad thing). The fact is that marijuana, as much as it can hurt some individuals, can greatly improve the quality of life of others. In the case of your boyfriend, it helped him to evpress his love for you is a healthy and meaningful way: the affection that he showed for you when smoking was not invalid because of the marijuana (in fact, the weed probably let him express himself more openly and truthfully). You really need to try to educate yourself before you ruin your whole relationship-- you had romance, good sex, communication, and now nothing. Think about being more understanding of how marijunana may be more helpful to your boyfriend than hurtful.
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some people really need the drug to operate like they want to, you cant take way their first psychoactive love
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Whoever told you THC is a mild form of acid is an id**t. Believing this makes you more idiotic. You clearly have no idea what you are talking about.
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ok, so its nice to know that you watch T.R.U.T.H commercials alot and start to see it as "one of the must dangerous kinds of smoking aside from cigarettes". In fact, im sure you probably think that marijuana makes you "stupid" or kills your brain cells. Weed isnt really BAD for EVERYONE and it surely does not CAUSE depression. Marijuana has been used medically to reduce cancer cells in the human body. Not only are the "facts" you preach on about false, but calling the harmlessness a "rumor" is pretty B.S. Where exactly have you found proof that it "ruins" relationships ue to its NATURALITY? Causes erectile problems? Physical problems? You can ask any professional who has specialized in that study and they will tell you that it does not cause withdrawals, (though it may seem like it) and does not kill sexual stimulation. I think before you speak you should actually do some REAL research, not going on and GOOGLING or believeing what mommy and daddy tell you just to keep you in your boxed life. Marijuana also keeps moods positive, (like her boyfriend for example) but its the fact that he felt neglected because of how she reacted to him/it. So i think you need to calm down, chill the hell out, and at LEAST think before you speak.
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The problem is everyone here seems to be talking from personal experience, minus the discussion about whether or not THC is an acid, which is only marginally relevant to the question posed by the first poster. Importantly, personal experience is anecdotal.
The research suggests that the effects of marijuana use can range for different people. This might be caused by the fact that pot is an illegal drug without any standards of production. Smoking pot bought off the streets could be laced with other drugs that cause different effects. Moreover, even if everyone smoked the same kind of pot, not everyone could be expected to react to it the same way, just as doctors do not expect pharmaceuticals to work the same way for everyone.
Second, though smoking marijuana does not damage the brain directly like how alcohol and other drugs can, it does impede healthy brain development. Smoking pot during the years of brain development, up until mid-to-late twenties, will impede the brain's development with irreversible effects.
As for sex drive, long term use has been shown in multiple studies to lower sex drive in men, because of its effect on testosterone. This can result in not only low sex drive, but erectile disfuction as well. Personal experience might be contrary to this, but personal experience is not a scientific study, and that is the main point here.
As for the lady's significant other, sudden changes in sex drive can simply be the result of stress put on the body by a sudden change in diet and chemical consumption. It might be advisable to allow him to ween off the marijuana to make the transition less stressful on his body.
As for whether or not he ought to be allowed to smoke pot, you are both adults. It's your relationship. Neither of you are at fault for what you are doing, ignoring the illegality of marijuana, but both of you ought to be with a compatible partner.
The research suggests that the effects of marijuana use can range for different people. This might be caused by the fact that pot is an illegal drug without any standards of production. Smoking pot bought off the streets could be laced with other drugs that cause different effects. Moreover, even if everyone smoked the same kind of pot, not everyone could be expected to react to it the same way, just as doctors do not expect pharmaceuticals to work the same way for everyone.
Second, though smoking marijuana does not damage the brain directly like how alcohol and other drugs can, it does impede healthy brain development. Smoking pot during the years of brain development, up until mid-to-late twenties, will impede the brain's development with irreversible effects.
As for sex drive, long term use has been shown in multiple studies to lower sex drive in men, because of its effect on testosterone. This can result in not only low sex drive, but erectile disfuction as well. Personal experience might be contrary to this, but personal experience is not a scientific study, and that is the main point here.
As for the lady's significant other, sudden changes in sex drive can simply be the result of stress put on the body by a sudden change in diet and chemical consumption. It might be advisable to allow him to ween off the marijuana to make the transition less stressful on his body.
As for whether or not he ought to be allowed to smoke pot, you are both adults. It's your relationship. Neither of you are at fault for what you are doing, ignoring the illegality of marijuana, but both of you ought to be with a compatible partner.
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Yeah seriously... WTF Girl lol people smoke weed all the time. Ok listen. Obama smoked weed. Bill gates smoked weed. Richard Bronson still smokes weed (WITH HIS SON) - one of the riches man in the world. Hell, even Lincoln smoked weed (on a regular basis!) And people who smoked weed can definatley remember everything lol WTF??? This girl is living in a drama land lol
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