I have this problem as well. The Phimosis and the not being able to ejaculate. At first i attributed the retarded ejaculation to me being either drunk or on drugs, as that was when I was actually having sex. But it happens to me when i'm sober as well. I think I have decided to get circumsiced to try and sort out the problem! With my last girlfriend I had to kinda pretend to have some sort of fetish about cuming on her to try and mask the reality, but obviously she knew something was up as she couldn't make me ejaculate at all even by oral or digital ways! i also think theres something in the over masturbation theory, maybe you can ask him about his habits and to stopmasturbating which should make him more sensitive!
My man thinks the same things and i have no idea what to do for him either..
i used to be a one or two pump guy but over the years it changed. now I dont cum. it may be from thinking im preformed bad. but now i cant cum at all i give my gf so many orgasms but i cant and it actualy really sucks.
drinking or drugs WILL kill your orgasms...I know, if I drink a good bit the night before, the next day is HARD for me to cum, unless I stimulate prostrate
My bf and i have the same problem and has the extra foreskin but i dont even want to think the only way for it to be normal is him having to get a circumcision. Did you never over come this until your operation?
I think this is just something that can take time, everyone is different, your different, he is different. You can't compare yourselves to anyone, you just have to be relaxed and take your time.
Unlike some silly answers on here id be happy to talk normally and help if i can, im sure ur not ugly either.
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Ignore all the stupid answers.
I had phimosis and a circumcision when I was 17 -- I still find it challenging to reach full orgasm and I have decided this is due to a low sensitivity to pain/touch that I have all over me. I don't know if it's a common factor between people with phimosis or not, but as the second person on here with the condition and a circumcision, it seems likely.
Just be patient, and enjoy the long ride is my suggestion ;-)
Hi purekatherine;
There are plenty of nerves in the foreskin, so just keep stimulating the foreskin. It is not his phimosis.
Your boyfriend needs to stop masturbating when he is alone. Maybe should he let his guard down and perform while you watch? I think (it was mine) may be the problem
I am 55 yr old . I can cum Everytime I pull out my vibrator ..and I can do it 1-10 a day. No problem ..I just a soundMexican man I really like and I don't get it we have sex alot in our first 30 days ...and he doesn't cum not once . He continues to say it's not you I just take longer and trying to feel your rhythm. I have been with a few men and all cum on first encounter. I feel this is not me but again what is this? I feel this man has alot of what I am looking for but this is missing..and for me it's my red flag. Open for advice or opinion..