I know that some STI's (ie Chlamydia and gonorrhea) have pain while peeing as a sympton, but I'm pretty sure he's stayed faithful to me, so would like to investigate other possibilities. This was the first time we had sex in a few weeks, and the pain for him started yesterday morning. As far as I know, he hasn't been experiencing bleeding/swelling/redness, but I'm still worried for him.
And before anyone asks, he is planning to go to the doctor if the pain hasn't subsided in a couple days, but we would like some input now.
Thanks much,
--Jade
Since you are experiencing the itching as well, it is possible that you both have a yeast infection, which is not an STD but can easily be passed back and forth between partners. Yeast infections are fairly easy to treat with over-the-counter antifungal medications like monistat. While you should use the internal version, your fiancé can apply the cream directly to his penis skin. It’s best to avoid sex until you are both better; otherwise you run the risk of re-infecting each other, as well as causing more irritation. Once things have cleared up, make sure that both of you keep the area clean and dry, and avoid any fragrances, lotions or deodorants with chemical ingredients. A high-quality penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) can benefit your fiancé by helping to keep the skin clear, smooth and free of minute tears that can allow yeast and other organisms to take hold.