My Gf wants to get pregnant; we’re both 27 and she thinks that it’s right time for us to have a baby. I don’t know if I’m positive about that. I still haven’t talked to her about what I thought about babies. I think that I’m not ready, but love her and do not want to lose her. How to be honest and not to hurt her?
You need to be honest with her. Do you have arguments why you don’t want to have baby now? If do, then say that. Having baby is very serious thing. Once you get it, you always have it and have to take care of it and to be good parent. I guess that you can never be absolutely ready for such a change because it is at the same time scary and wonderful. But honesty and understanding are as important as love is in relation ship, so if there’re no such things, that relation ship should not develop in family.