i have tried fingering my girlfriend but she doesnt feel anything it bothers me . is this normal?
Ok, so your probably not hitting her g spot, or your only using one finger.
So the next time you guys get busy, and you want to work a bit before penitration heres what you do;
Girls love their clit being rubbed work her a bit but when you go to finger her heres what you do:
Step 1: You need to stick one finger in (preferably the middle finger) and find the rough surface patch on the inside
top part of the vaginal wall. (This will feel like chicken skin bumps but a bit smoother).
Step 2: Once you have found that g spot, you need to position your hand correctly. You acheive this by cupping your hand
and inserting your middle and ring finger into her, overlapping her g spot with the pads of those two fingers.
(Now you should what I call the spiderman hand position.)
Step 3: Now that you have the right technique down, it depends on your girl, whether she likes it rough or not. So you lightly
press or rub over and over again that g spot and your going to just keep on working her until you get the right reaction
Ask her to communicate with you she will then let you know if it feels good or not! If she likes it aggresive than press or rub
harder, if she likes it tender give it to her nicely. If she is over the top crazy and likes it mad hard I would switch to what I
Call the Gun fingering.
Step 4: Position your index finger and middle finger together and curl back your other fingers, to form a gun.(You may use as many
fingers as you like, depending how big your penis size is.
Insert into her the 2 fingers and aim your fingers up toward her g spot and blow a couple of caps back and forth.
If she wants it harder penis your gun to the side (now having the pads of your fingers faceing upward and same thing
always rubbing vigorously at her g spot.
Now that you know what to do, have fun see what she likes, improvize and she will tell you what she likes remember to communicate with each other thats the only way your sex is going to get better, remember focus on her make sure shes feeling, get her to her peek make her spray and then go to town. Remember it may take anywhere from 10 mins to 30mins to get her arroused. You also want it to be as close as a feeling to your penis doing the work, the closer the feeling the better. So be patience, and work at it and you will see results.
Best of luck to you :-)
So the next time you guys get busy, and you want to work a bit before penitration heres what you do;
Girls love their clit being rubbed work her a bit but when you go to finger her heres what you do:
Step 1: You need to stick one finger in (preferably the middle finger) and find the rough surface patch on the inside
top part of the vaginal wall. (This will feel like chicken skin bumps but a bit smoother).
Step 2: Once you have found that g spot, you need to position your hand correctly. You acheive this by cupping your hand
and inserting your middle and ring finger into her, overlapping her g spot with the pads of those two fingers.
(Now you should what I call the spiderman hand position.)
Step 3: Now that you have the right technique down, it depends on your girl, whether she likes it rough or not. So you lightly
press or rub over and over again that g spot and your going to just keep on working her until you get the right reaction
Ask her to communicate with you she will then let you know if it feels good or not! If she likes it aggresive than press or rub
harder, if she likes it tender give it to her nicely. If she is over the top crazy and likes it mad hard I would switch to what I
Call the Gun fingering.
Step 4: Position your index finger and middle finger together and curl back your other fingers, to form a gun.(You may use as many
fingers as you like, depending how big your penis size is.
Insert into her the 2 fingers and aim your fingers up toward her g spot and blow a couple of caps back and forth.
If she wants it harder penis your gun to the side (now having the pads of your fingers faceing upward and same thing
always rubbing vigorously at her g spot.
Now that you know what to do, have fun see what she likes, improvize and she will tell you what she likes remember to communicate with each other thats the only way your sex is going to get better, remember focus on her make sure shes feeling, get her to her peek make her spray and then go to town. Remember it may take anywhere from 10 mins to 30mins to get her arroused. You also want it to be as close as a feeling to your penis doing the work, the closer the feeling the better. So be patience, and work at it and you will see results.
Best of luck to you :-)