My husband wants me to swallow and do anal. I don't want to.

You do realize sex is for making babies, right?

Well Girl. My hot sweety wants it anal and she doesn't swallow either. Use a lot of lube and try it yourself with a toy. Butt plug etc. You might like it. Tell your husband he needs to eat something sweet so his cum tastes better. Until then now swallowing.

just do the anal and swallow his cum do it whenever he wants it,please ur man even if u dont like what he wants itll make the relationship better just do it youll get use to it all after a while

Honey i didnt want to do anal i was so scared but i did it for my partner it hurt the 1st time but it did get better i dont get much out of it but he loves it so i do it for him so long as hes gentle the 1st time and uses lots of lube You will get used to it and enjoy pleasing him Also the swallowing just take a deep breath and do it i wont pretend its nice but again it pleases the man and i think well it wont kill me lol Some men like to be dominant in the bedroom and thats not a bad thing if both partys agree but id  say just grit ur teeth and go for it u may end up enjoying it u never know and if not once a week wont hurt

 

Hey, what you really should do; is demand that he give you head every time you have sex.  You should tell him that you will do anal and/or swallow his cum ONLY if he gives you an orgasm with HIS mouth first.  Then, don't tell him you've had an orgasm until you've had two.  That's fair.

You are all disgusting, sickening.  I don't expect much from men but for women to allow themselves to be degraded and treated like animals is terrible.  Have some self-respect, ladies.

Good one, ha, ha, ha.

Listen, hun. What your husband has told you is awful. A relationship of any kind is about respect and balance. It shouldn't be about fear and pain. My significant other recently mentioned to me about anal sex. I was curious and kind of scared. I told him he should go really slow and if I tell him to stop, he has to stop immediately, but I agreed. It didn't even go in the whole way, and it started hurting like hell. He stopped immediately. THAT is what your husband should do. You ABSOLUTELY do not have to go through with that. If it causes you pain or you hate it, he shouldn't be using scare tactics on you to get you to comply. That, to me, is almost like rape. You love him, and I know this must be really hard and confusing for you, but think of it this way: Would you force him to do something that causes him pain? If you love him, then of course you wouldn't. If he loves you, he will understand that you don't want to do it. If you don't want to, DON'T. If he is going to leave you for something like that, then he isn't worth it. That isn't love, it is abuse. He doesn't own you. You are a strong woman, and you don't need him. Talk to him. Tell him that there are some things that you just won't do and if he can't respect that, then he can go find a partner that enjoys what he enjoys and you can go find a gentleman that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. 

Do what my wife said and done, I will swallow and have your penis up my ass, only if you swallow yours and I stick a dildo up your ass. Its a decision a man has to make.

Last time I checked women aren't objects for men to get pleasure from and just grit their teeth and do it. As well as getting used to it if she doesn't like it now she shouldn't do it. Love is about give and take not foisting actions upon the female because men want to get their jollies off from being a dominant a**.

Sweetie if I were you i'd follow what these people said from a post similar to yours.

i really f*****g hate people that tell women (esp. younger women) this sh*t. the actual answer is “tell him you don’t want to do it and that’s that and if he tries to argue tell him to go f**k himself from now on”
It’s not worth it. It’s never worth it. Don’t do it. Any dude that actually gets bothered by you not swallowing his semen is a sack of gross dead penises.
I am a little horrified that the only thing she does—like she never considered any other option—is provide tricks to minimize the discomfort, instead of saying “then tell him you don’t want to swallow and if he objects, run.”

You are not some toy that sole purpose is to do what he wants, you are a human being. Think if this was a girl making demands of a guy or even you making these demands would he do it? Men are taught to grow out and say and get what they want when women are taught to grow in and absorb. This is not right, do not absorb, tell that SOB to f**k off and stop asking and if he really loves you he will understand, and even if you don't do these things don't EXPECT someone to cheat or be prepared for it because that is WRONG. If my man didn't do something I wanted I would NOT cheat. Any one who would or thinks that men deserve something from a woman because he is the man does not deserve pleasure of any kind. Truthfully women owe men //NOTHING// and men owe women NOTHING. You owe him nothing, so don't let him bully you into thinking you do or trying to use fear to make you do what he wants. Not to offend..well actually i want to offend a little/a lot, he is a coward who hides behind demands and uses fear to invoke subordination. He is a sexist pig who deserves nothing less than a punch in the face. He is /LUCKY/ to have you and if he doesn't see that then he /doesn't/ deserve you AT ALL.

Well I am kind of in the same situation but in a very different way I have recently started talking & face timing a man and we are at our learning stage but he told me that his ex wife use to do anal & use to swallow his semen well I am not into swallowing nor do I like anal as I have tried it once & it hurt me since I already have issues with my colon/bowels I've had polyps removed and it's not pleasant plus other issues in that department! He is telling me that I will do both with him & I will like it! He is very sexual where I am too but not as sexual as he is! He thinks very highly of himself sexually as he tells me that I never had a man like him & that all is ex partners commented on that fact that he is the best at it all! He seems very controlling in his demands which I don't like to be told what to do been there went through it for 2 years & noticing a patern in this man! We are not sex slaves as I told him if he wants me & demands me to swallow his load well he better prepare to swallow his own load first! If I have to put his semen in a turkey baster & put it to his mouth and pressure shoot it down his throat & see how he likes it well then be it! I am sure that he wouldn't like it either.. Forcing your partner to do things sexually that you don't want to do is wrong! It's not love and it's disrespectful! If he is so into anal get yourself a strap on and do it to him! I got myself a strap on when my ex kept forcing me to try it then I gave in once & as I mentioned above it hurt me so I went out & bought a strap on and said now it's your turn he didn't like the idea at all so I said well why not you always keep pushing it on to me! 2 can play that game! If he liked it so much why wouldn't he try it! For your situation sweetie I feel for you & if he truly loved you & respected you he wouldn't threaten you to leave cause you don't want to perform those sexual acts! I agree there's many ways to please your partner without being forced into doing something you're not wanting to do! To the men or women who force sexual acts on your partner seek help at least we do the best that we can to please your needs! If I were you I'd try to address this to him if he gets angry or threatens you then he's not worth it sweetie! Good luck

Each case on here sounds like your husbands are already well into porn and are now dealing with serious sex addiction. Those who start with porn become increasingly violent and sexually degrading to women. They increasingly now get off on hurting their partner to feel powerful. Note: they are chemically attaching to the porn star as a 2-dimensional pixel sex object. Their addiction will escalate and will transition - if it has not already happen, to sex with any woman they can hook up with - it will take him at most an hour to arrange a hook up and have sex - some have sex with hundreds of other partners before their partners have any idea what is going on. The husbands pushing their wives to have sex with other men is about degrading you for control - it is about pimping you, just like the porn scenario - he doesn't care it you get disease - HIV/AIDS, cervical cancer, etc Worse case: this is an addiction. He will change the structure or his brain and he will need more and more sexual acting out. He will spend a lot it money, he will lie about you-- and as his addiction continues, he will damage his brain worse than a meth addict. All of you - leave now. Take your 50% share of the money and get divorce before you end up like me - broke, betrayed, and a brain damaged husband who is now violent and frightening. RUN! Most of the men you are describing sound like sexual predators. And to the dude who wrote that he expects his partner to please him even if it hurts her: you are ordering her to submit to rape. Get help now.

He loves you, he sees you as the woman he desires. You have it all. There is a right way and a wrong way to do anal. Find together about the right way.

if you deep throat his johnson all the way to the back of your throat, you'll never have to taste his giz load. you can simply enjoy the warm feeling you get like when you're drinking a hot chocolate as it slides down your throbbing throat. 

I M A WOMEN AND I LOOSE MY HUSBAND FOR NOT DOING SO, he married with another married women who is satisfying him with all these acts. ACTUALLY I FEEL THAT AT THE TIME OF orgasm of a man it is very essential that penis of the men should be inside in any hole either vagina or anus or mouth. That pays more more pleasure to a men. as far as swallow of sperm is concern it gives mental satisfaction to men that his partner deeply loves him. in the other hand values of the semon is much much beneficial for a women, like it helps for skin glow, reduce the fats, and provide other vitamins which are good for women health. for the test of the semon , at the time of bj you spread some mayonise or honey on the top of the panis. and also put some ice-cream with you and eat it immediate after swallow of cum.