My husband wants me to swallow and do anal. I don't want to.

Dylan2713 over a year ago

Your husband is probably hooked on porn - all the sudden he is threatenkng divorce - which is abusive and is like psychologically arresting someone to get them to give him what he wants. I'd bet 100 to 1 he's into porn. Also any man that cares about his wife will let her do what she is comfortable with.

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Liz over a year ago

Same here everytime he ask me to do it even if i dont want to to im trying because i love him so much but it makes my mouth feel bad i mean i cant do it i hte the taste and it feel yucky.. Sorry for the word, i mean yes his my husband but i cant complain and we always ended arguing and not talking i dont know wht to do im so upset about it that he cnt undrstant me.

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Guest over a year ago

f**k him let him leave and ill shag u x

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Guest over a year ago

You cannot be forced into doing activities against your will. If you say NO to him and he continues to force his self then you can contact the police in regards to rape charges. If he is constantly harassing you for activities which you have told him No to. Then you again can tell the police you are experiencing emotional abuse and metal abuse which could progress to physical abuse.

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Guest over a year ago

Hey,
Sex is not the only thing in husband and wife relationship but it is part of it! Thousands of different things every one wanted to try and enjoy in sex! We can not blame your husband as he wants to try things but he can make request to you not order or demand! When you can not do it he should not say that he will leave you, if you do not do! I personally feel those kind of people will always try to find some reason to ditch the life partner! Especially, when they find better one! Please do not mistake me! Tell your hubby that you have a fantasy that your partner should eat sh*t while having sex! Hopefully he will realize what he demanded to you is wrong!

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Guest over a year ago

Ask him if he loves you enough to be empathic. Based on his answer and behavior, you have to make a choice. Stay with a man who may not love you enough to respect your feelings or divorce. In your case, the grass is greener.

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Guest over a year ago

You're not sexually compatible. You're not into the same things sexually. You are holding back thing he desires, so to him you are not giving 100% of yourself. It would be like you marry a millionaire and he won't let you spend any if his money. He'd be holding back from you. You ought to give your husband what he desires sexually just like you're husband should give you what you desire sexually and otherwise.

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Gary over a year ago

If you arent going to swallow or do anal then he'll simply find someone else who will, even behind your back. I hope you enjoy being a divorcee and having trouble finding a guy willing to stick around. There's plenty of fish in the sea for guys to find. So unless you want to be a lonely fish you better learn how to swallow and how to do anal. And if you think I'm joking, I am not.

The number one reason men divorce is sexual dissatisfaction. If a man is sexually satisfied and has all of his sexual desires met, he will go out of his way to put up with a lot from his wife and his life situation. Once sexual satisfaction and sexual desires are not met, the relationship immediately begins falling apart and the man is on the way out.

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Guest over a year ago

I've been married 5years and we do anal and I swallow because I love him. Thats why I got a e 350 for valentines day cause he gets whatever he wants...I'm his wife so his needs should be met

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Guest over a year ago

She never said he was abusive about it.. If you both really love each other.. You should maybe give it a try.. The first time me and my partner done anal, it hurt a bit but the second time, really slow and gentle

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Guest over a year ago

It's your body...if he doesn't respect that then he doesn't respect you. Ditch him and find someone who does. You deserve to be loved, respected and listened to...you're worth it. Do it now.

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Guest over a year ago

Good grief! What about your needs...or doesn't that matter?? You and any other women is not a slave to their husband. If hitting you pleased him.....would you let him do it???

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Guest over a year ago

Get on with it! He probably hates something's you like and still dose them

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Guest over a year ago

Get your head around it or leave him

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Guest over a year ago

I've wanted my wife to keep sucking when i cum for 20 years. She didn't want to. I thought a compromise would be for her NOT to swallow. She still didn't want to. so i stopped asking. I still desire that, but i would never say i'd leave her if she didn't. That's emotional blackmail, and he sounds like a child not getting his way. We tried anal, but it hurt too much so i stopped trying. I now realize that it hurt her because i was bad at it. When a guy does it the right way, the girl feels pressure but not pain. I suggest that you be the adult in the relationship. Don't allow him to force you period. Don't swallow even once in a while. If you're ok with sucking while he cums, which makes him feel intense sexual pleasure, but opening your mouth instead of swallowing, try that. Swallowing doesn't intensify his pleasure, it's psychological - child psychology on his part. AND ignore his childish rants but, as the adult in the relationship, tell him you'll agree to go to marriage counseling (the counselor will be trained and know how to deal with your husband) to resolve this sexual issue, and if he refuses, YOU'LL file for legal separation. Then if he continues to refuse to go, file for divorce. Because things would only continue to get worse. Remember, I'm a guy. and i have strong sexual urges that aren't being met. So if i'm on your side completely, it kind of tells you that your husband is completely wrong and, to put it mildly, he's an immature brat. He's also a f*****g id**t. I wish you well.

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