My husband wants me to swallow and do anal. I don't want to.

That's what a good wife should do. Too bad you say "didn't mind". If he knew what he was doing, he should have you begging for more.

And as for sex during your period, since you were using a tampon, I hope he was man enough to earn his red wings. That's the least he could do for you if you were giving up your black cherry for him.

Hello, for those of you who have not had anal sex it is amazing. I (including now) use a 3in diameter warm shampoo bottle and will pump it for 6 - 8 hours twice a week. My ass is very comfortable with this but use lots of lube. I make my own lube using 50% Vaseline and 50% icy hot. Most people do not put this stuff nowhere close to their rectum but it feels so good. I actual take straight icy hot before I start and coat the anus and finger myself at the same time. I have used many objects but this bottle is my staple. I like to heat it up in the microwave and then sit on it. I will get to the point where I will just start cumming. I like to keep my ass shaved so no hair is being pulled in the up stroke. One this to be aware of in time your brown eye will go away and your anus will look different.

I agree with this....

and from above post, I think that guy is cheating or some kinda want
to split with woman

and that's why you are a spinster at age 45. No man. No kids. And your uterus is shriveling and drying up. Pity you.

Most of you are sick.

You sound so selfish.

You attitude to sex is memememe..

Some of you women have no self esteem. Willing to degrade yourself to keep a man.

Porn is destroying this world and human relationships.

If you don't want to do it don't do it.

Women just have no self esteem nowadays

please consider doing whaat your husband desires. Its not a huge issue and keeping him satisfied will keep him from cheating on you. it may be hard to do, but try to so it. you wont regret it, he'll be so happy!

what I did to my husband when he try to do anal, I shoved my finger raw in his A hole to see how he likes that. never try again. they need to understand it hurts. Porn is acting and lights and camera those girls are hurting and stopping for breathing time.

Would you let her f**k you in the ass with a GIANT strap-on dildo?

then your a horrible wife and he should leave you. youy supposed to fulfill his sexual desires.

Just do it. You woman complain so much. I work 60hrs a week and clean house and still have time for my family. My wife does whatever i want in the bedroom to show her appreciation. If he's a lazy guy i could understand why not to do it. We all make sacrifices to make our spouse happy. So if he is willing to please you sexual or otherwise, stop being so prissy about it and take it up your ass. As for swallowing. Pull out and beg him to do it all over your face and make it sound dirty and that might help. All any man wants is a good woman that's a who're in the bedroom.

Me and my husband have been together 4 1/2 years I'm almost 21 and he is 24 .... He has begged me to do anal well I finally did and the first time I'm not gonna lie it hurts but the 2nd time I decided to have a glass of wine and I was actually quite into it ... I advise this if you use lots of lube and I mean a lot it feels so much better maybe this is TMI but before my husband ask me to do it recently when he was eating me out he tried somthing new he ate my buthole to then he ask me for anal so I mean how could I reject it then lol so I said okay but he let me ease it in it took about 15 min to get it in but he was very patient about it .... Then I realized damn it feels really good so we do anal about 3 times a month and the best way to ease it in let him eat your vagina and but hole and then let him use lube to put his fingers in it gets it nice and open so it doesn't hurt as bad .... And recently my husband ask me to swallow him sperm I mean how can I say no he clearly swallows mine all the time plus eats my but I did it and it didn't taste bad at all ... I mean think about it ladies my husband is 100% faithful and when your working with the same thing all the time YOU GOT TO SPICE IT UP BE FUN !!!

If he loved you he would stop just let him leave he is turned on.

Don't do it if he loved u he would stop its nasty anyways.

Tell him to eat more fruit if he wants to do that.

Sexual desires like these don't just show up in a relationship.  When you were dating, how did you handle these requests?  Was there a promise with marriage it would be possible or did sex cut back after the vows?

To your husband, cumming in your mouth is Disneyland.  Sticking his penis inside of your butt is the equivalent of a 5 day, 2 night vacation to Hawaii. In the long run, right or wrong, when a man has a strong sexual desire, he will go get it. If you are not willing to live with infedelity, then you neeed to find a compromise.  Watch videos on fellatio and learn how to spit in a sexy way.  For the anal need, you could try kegels or vaginal weights to can make your vagina a spectacular place.  Or, get a guide like Tristam Tarominos covering anal sex. Start out  slow and work your way into it.  When done right orgasms are possible. 

In the end it is all about communicating both of your needs and finding a way to make each other happy.  Both sides need to find a compomise.

Trying to group everyone the same is wrong. Everybody is into different things, some are into anal, oral, regular intercourse, fetishes etc. Don't try and say hes insane because that one fetish is not your cup of tea, it may be to him. Questioning his sexual preference because he requests anal from his wife? just an ignorant statement. I'm with the OP as far as BJ AND swallow. For me its better than intercourse and required. I would not marry or stay with anyone that did not feel the same. Its called sexual compatibility.