OK...1st of all I am 18 and pregnant with my 2nd child. I got pregnant with my 1st at 14 and had him at 15. My boyfriend is 4 years older than me but he has been there for me all along and is the father of both children. I DID quit high school but I got my GED and now attend nursing school. Just because u are 14 doesn't mean u CAN'T raise a child so don't let anyone tell u that. My boyfriend and I have raised our son, on our own, since the day he was born with no help and no problem. I wasn't ready for a child but I felt like it was my responsibility to have and raise him. It was the best decision of my life. I love him more than life itself I would die for his sake. Everyone told me that I would never be able to live a normal life because I was so young but my life is as normal now as it has ever been. I still do everything I done before I just include my son in whatever I do. Now I am 37 weeks pregnant with my 2nd child at 18 years old and I wouldn't change it for the world. My advice is to tell your parents, or have someone tell them for u. Also u should have a very serious talk with your boyfriend and REALLY think about what U want. Not what your parents or anyone else wants. It's your child, your body, and your life. NOONE, not even your parents can make u have an abortion or put your baby up for adoption. Do what u think is best after u put some thought into it. Good luck to u and I hope u make the right decision. If u want to talk some more u can e-mail me..****


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