i tried to tell my parents what they are doing is pushing me away more. but they said that they dont know what else to do but yell at me and punish me. they asked what they think they should do about it and i didnt know what to say. then they called me a w**** again and started yelling about how im not gonna do anything ever again and will never have a phone.
please just stop commenting.
There are a lot of reasons why your period could of been late to start with at your age simply from hormones or stress to name a few and as both medic dan and I said plan b can also make you late and change your cycle for several months after taking it.
The chances of you being pregnant would be less than 1% I'm sure and you stressing about It now is not helping either.
If your friends are understanding then you won't loose them and if they don't stand by you then they are not worth the title of friends because that's not what a friend is.
Just give it a few weeks and everything will settle down a bit at home, your parents still see you as there little baby girl and just want to protect you, it doesn't matter if you 2 or 52 your still be there little girl and they will want to protect you, as medic dan said when you get older and have your own kids your understand that parental bond and the protection you feel.
Everything will work out fine in the end its just going to take time to earn these trust again.
The chances of you being pregnant would be less than 1% I'm sure and you stressing about It now is not helping either.
If your friends are understanding then you won't loose them and if they don't stand by you then they are not worth the title of friends because that's not what a friend is.
Just give it a few weeks and everything will settle down a bit at home, your parents still see you as there little baby girl and just want to protect you, it doesn't matter if you 2 or 52 your still be there little girl and they will want to protect you, as medic dan said when you get older and have your own kids your understand that parental bond and the protection you feel.
Everything will work out fine in the end its just going to take time to earn these trust again.
look ill make my last comment if that was my child and put in that position theres no doubt in my mind that first off she would have gotten a good whooping second i would drag her to the doctor in front of her friend to be check out third all her privileges would be strip and would be watch like a hawk now thats what i would do if that was my child but ill leave it up to the parents and also i dont know how her parents even let her be on the computer or phone hmm???
CAN YOU STOP ALREADY NO ONE IS ASKING YOU
Its just very strange that this is happening to me. Im usually never late. and i know the pill can throw my period off but i took that two days ago. that doesnt explain why my period is three weeks late. My mom made an appointment for me to be blood tested and checked for a sexually transmitted disease. if i dont come out negative for both of these i dont know honestly how i will move on. i dont want to live if thats the case. im not suisidal and i could never take myself to kill myself but im not going to want to ive and my parents will make my life hell thats for sure. you said in a previous comment that parents yelling and punishing there kids harshly doesnt help. i agree with that but what do you think they should do? what would you do if you were my parent
In that case you would deserve every thing you had coming to you if your child was to report you to child services for cruelty, 19 century where you seen to be living doesn't exist no more, grow up and learn the 21st century way you may think you can get away with treating a child of any age like that but you can't!
what this person is saying is sick. glad i dont have them as a parent!
You say your period is 3 weeks late so what date should it hated started? The first time you had protected sex what date was that? The time you had unprotected sex what date was that?
It's highly unlikely you would catch any kind of sti/std from the first guy because you used a condom the second guy unless he had slept around a lot it's unlikely you would of got anything from him, can I ask how old both guys where? I won't judge you on anything you tell me jus keep a total open mind.
If I was your parents then I would probably do what your movies is doing and get you checked out but I would probably also suggest that you in on the pill not because I'm saying It's ok to have sex at your age but just to be safe I would also be telling you to carry condoms with you in your purse for the same reason, I would also probably ground you for a short time and give you more choirs to do but I would also sit you down and talk to you about what has gone on rationally so you see how it makes up feel as parents that we have let you down for being over protective towards you.
Being a parent is hard you have to give your children enough respect to earn there's but if you go to far then they rebel against it, hope that makes some sense to you, as for saying what you should tell your parents they should do that I can't say as I don't know them but what I will tell you is to get respect through life you have to earn that respect first and that goes for anything you do.
As I said give things a little while to settle down and I'm sure your parents will come round in the end and give some privileges back once you earn them. :)
It's highly unlikely you would catch any kind of sti/std from the first guy because you used a condom the second guy unless he had slept around a lot it's unlikely you would of got anything from him, can I ask how old both guys where? I won't judge you on anything you tell me jus keep a total open mind.
If I was your parents then I would probably do what your movies is doing and get you checked out but I would probably also suggest that you in on the pill not because I'm saying It's ok to have sex at your age but just to be safe I would also be telling you to carry condoms with you in your purse for the same reason, I would also probably ground you for a short time and give you more choirs to do but I would also sit you down and talk to you about what has gone on rationally so you see how it makes up feel as parents that we have let you down for being over protective towards you.
Being a parent is hard you have to give your children enough respect to earn there's but if you go to far then they rebel against it, hope that makes some sense to you, as for saying what you should tell your parents they should do that I can't say as I don't know them but what I will tell you is to get respect through life you have to earn that respect first and that goes for anything you do.
As I said give things a little while to settle down and I'm sure your parents will come round in the end and give some privileges back once you earn them. :)
it should have started september 25. the period before started august 25 (it was a week late) Im not sure the exact date of the first boy. he is 17 i think it was the first of october then i had sex again with another 17 year old the 9th of october. im not sure tho about the first boy... i thought there was more time between the two of them, i guess not.
i feel like they will do what you said as things cool down if im not pregnant. they just keep saying how they dont know how they will ever be able to trust me again
you are helping me so much thank you
So what date did you take the plan b then? Sorry for all the questions, is your cycle normally regular then and is it normally 31days?
What was the reason you had sex the first time was it something you had planed and went out with the invention of doing or was it that you was talked into doing by the guy and same question for the second time?
No one can help there sexual urges specially during puberty when the new hormones are going wild and making you feel turned on.
My advice on that to you is when you feel turned on and feel the urge to have sex again just masturbate and relive the built up tension.
Your parents will be mad at you to start with but they should also be proud that you used protection the first time, give them time and they will get over it. :)
What was the reason you had sex the first time was it something you had planed and went out with the invention of doing or was it that you was talked into doing by the guy and same question for the second time?
No one can help there sexual urges specially during puberty when the new hormones are going wild and making you feel turned on.
My advice on that to you is when you feel turned on and feel the urge to have sex again just masturbate and relive the built up tension.
Your parents will be mad at you to start with but they should also be proud that you used protection the first time, give them time and they will get over it. :)
the 10th i used plan B. The first guy i just reaslly wanted to try it. i didnt like him i just found him attractive and he was my friend and he cared about me so i did it. it wasnt really planned. the second guy i started to like and have been texting and hanging out with for a while as friends. we recently started thinking about being more than friends, he kissed me one day and i started to really like him. we hung out we were cuddling in his bed and one thing led to another. now my parents dont want me to talk to him. they are disappointed i had sex with people i wasnt even dating.... told me that they both think im easy and just used me for sex
my parents are letting me go to the homecoming dance, its not gonna be fun without having a phone to take pictures and not going there and leaving with my friends (they said that they are driving me there and back) my life sucks. i wish i could change everything :(