well hey im havin problems with my girlfriend weve been togetha for 3 yrs and we have so many problems i get ova protective at tymes she hangs out wit tooo many boisz asnd i dunt like dat we are alwysz argueing and she has these modd swings like every minute i dunt no wut to i dunt want to lose her i wanna b with her foreva i dunt wnat to lose hewr and she luvs me but shes changin i no itsz normal but shes not da same person i fell in luv with do you think she is cheating on me and can you give me some advice on how to be a better boyfriend plsz i really need disz help plsz!!!!! :-(
She is probably not cheating if you know all the guys she hangs out with. You two have been together for a long time and when you are with someone for that long there is going to be arguments. It's healthy. Studies show that it is normal for a couple to have an argument every two days. You're jealous of her hanging out with other guys because you care about her. You have to try to ease off a little. You probably have no reason to worry. She needs to have friends. As for her mood swings, don't worry so much about them. All girls have mood swings and sometimes a lot. That's just part of being a woman. She can't control them very much, but she can try to control them the best she can. You can be more patient and understanding. This may help her. Relationships change after a while. They are supposed to. Don't make the mistake of thinking this is a bad thing. It just happens. Calm down and don't think negative thoughts.
I am sorry, but I get tired of trying to read posts that seem as if they would be interesting then you have someone typing things like: plze, tyme. Pick up a dang dictionary and maybe you'll end up with some great advice.