(Reposting because my thread was deleted)
My son is 16. His best friend (15) is openly gay, and tbh it's not even a subject that comes up : It's 2014, people can live however they want. One day, his best friend, who i'll just call Zack for the sake of this discssion, was at our home since they had a school project or something. My son said that he forgot the project file at another friends house, who happened to live about 25 minutes. My son said he'd be back, and Zack was sitting on the couch watching TV and eating chips.
I came downstairs and sat on the couch too, cause i took sick leave that day and had nothing to do. his mom was out with her friends. Anyway. So i was watching with disinterest whatever Zack was watching (it was stupid teen drama show). Out of nowhere, he dropped a few chips on my crotch. He reached over to pick up the chips, and started rubbing up on my...well you know. I said "Zack, what the hell are you doing?" to which he just snuck his hands down my shorst and grabbed it, and started jacking it. I did get slightly aroused but at the same time i knew that this WILDLY inappropriate, and immediately got up quite alrmed. Before i manged to get away, he almost managed to pull my shorts off. Puzzed, dazed, and just confused, i went into the other room, to hear him yelling stuff like "Please, i know you'd love a little a head" and "i just wanna try it with an adult". I stayed in the other room till my son got back, and things went back to normal.
I'm ashamed of getting semi erect, i really am. I've been feeling horrible, and have spoken to this about no one. I'm confident about the fact that had i not gotten up, he would have tried oral sex on me. Mayvbe it was the abruptness of it? Obviously i wasn't attracted or anything but i have no idea why i got a semi boner. What do i do? Should i tell his parents? Should i tell my son?
Hi Guest,
It's the same answer I wrote to your other post:
I can see this going bad very fast.
Depending upon what Zack says you could be considered a pedophile. You were alone in the house with an unrelated minor child, on the couch, watching TV.
Talk to a lawyer before you do anything.
I'll add this, if it happened as you described then it's almost like you were set up by your son.
Good luck with this, you're going to need it.
I am asuming you're a woman and if you are i would just tell your son about it and confront his friend setting the record straight that he came onto you and to never do it again. If he does i would just contact his parents and if you guys decide to take it to court get a damn good lawyer!
He got "erect" Cas, he's a he. So was Zack.
oh sorry i just kind of skimmed the story thats what i get
Set up by my son? :/
But...why. I'll admit that it seemed a little too convenient. But why would he do something.
I'm thinking of telling my wife. Should i?
I think you should only because of the fact that she might get pissed off later that you kept this secret.
Maybe Zack has been having sex with him, seems very likely, and Zack said he'd like to "try it with an adult."
Why didn't Zack go with him?
If i were you i would just ask your son if he has lost his virginity and who did he lose it to. After that if your son doesn't tell you what i would do is trick Zack into telling you the truth about what happened... you never know it might actually work.
Hi Guest
There are a couple red flags with your story that are cause for concern.
Not trying to offend you but these questions could very well be asked if there were to be any type of investigation into this and this is something you may need to prepare for.
It sounds like you just sat there when the kid dumped the chips on your crotch.
It sounds like you just sat there when he was picking them up and rubbing your junk outside your shorts.
You decided to move when he put his hand inside your shorts.
It will be asked were you wearing summer shorts or were you in your underwear?
It could be asked to were you actually sick off work or did you ditch work to hangout with the kids?
My concern would not be that your son set you up but more along the line of has there been other things said or done that would give this kid the impression that you would be interested in this type of thing with him?
Age of consent where you live could also be a factor.
You’re saying this was entirely the actions by this 15 year old boy.
The question many may have is why would you have not grabbed his hand immediately and removed it from your crotch stopping this and preventing it from going any further?
Kind of doubt you were overpowered by this kid, most people tend to push away unwanted touching and instantly react to in various ways to stop it and get out of the situation the fact that it got to the point where a 15 year old boy had his hand on your bare penis and got in some jacking sends up many red flags.
Again not trying to offend you or accuse you of any wrong doing but depending on what happens with this you may be asked to answer questions like this and explain in great detail what happened and why it happened.
There could be nothing come of this and it may never go any further.
You may want to consider not allowing this kid in your home and most definitely never be alone with him under any circumstance since you’re the adult all the responsibility is yours and along with that comes many questions and doubts.