A few nights ago, I went to a party and got totally wasted. I only remember vague accounts of that night. I know I went into a room with a guy and we took all of our clothes off. I think he fingered me, and I know I gave him a bj. I dont remember if we had sex or not, but I dont think we did...cuz it wasnt really working for either of us if i remember correctly. I woke up the next morning with a little blood in my underware and I was sore down there. My friends told me he could have cut me when I was fingered or even popped my cherry. Im trying to get in touch with him...but I cant. I need advice...and FAST!!! Im really nervous and scared! What should I do...im only 17:(
Yes it sounds like you definitely could have had sex. Try as hard as you can to get ahold of him- there must be some way. You need to find out if he used protection if you did have sex so you can get the morning after pill if he didn't.