So... i really hate admiting this... but i need help.
Obviously, I'm a lesbian... I've had sex with quite a few guys... and I'd be turned on... see the penis... then it all went away. But girls... gahh. Lol. But anywho. When me and ANYONE have sex... it takes forever for me to have an orgasm ... and I've always had to force them... up until my current girlfriend. But even with her... i get to climax, where im grabbing things... scratching her back... etc. And i remain in the "about to cum" phase for a good 5 minutes. So it lasts about 30-45 minutes. And it kills her arms. Then, we try clitoral orgasms... i used to be able to have them... but that was over 168 months ago. When i finally started trying again... i get wet... then i get to orgasm point... and everything down there goes numb, or loses the good feeling for a good 5 minutes. And I hate touching myself anyways. Any ideas? I've sat here for 45me minutes trying... and im almost in tears. Help! Also, im not loose, or old. Im 16...
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hmm i don't know how much help this will be but some women need constant stimulation for 20 min straight in order to orgasm. for me i don't have that problem. although i've never truly had sex. oral really helps as a foreplay just long kisses going down touching me softly n squeezing, then my bf just penetrates me with his fingers and i orgasm in the next 5 to 10min. sometimes 3 or 4 min if im lucky or hes really going at it. but really try getting steamy with things and focus on really feeling each other and enjoying it n deff try some oral as a foreplay :) hope this helps
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