Orgasm without an ejaculating?

Yes, it's possible. You see, orgasm and ejaculation are two separate processes and it possible that one can occur without the other. However, they usually happen at the same time. Orgasm is the release of sexual tension that has built to a peak. It includes an increase in heart rate, a surge in blood pressure, muscle contractions in the genitals, arms and legs, etc… On the other hand, ejaculation is the expulsion of semen from the tip of the penis. So, some men simply have orgasm without actually ejaculating. It is even possible to “train” yourself to achieve this – you need to learn how to your pubococcygeal muscle during sex – controlling it well, but before the point of no return, can prevent the fluid from being released (ejaculation). It is same thing when you urinate – man can stop urination midstream if necessary. Same technique can be applied for intercourse and ejaculation. Hope this answers your question.

Male orgasm without ejaculation is possible, and it even has a name: dry orgasm. It happens for two reasons. Either ejaculation simply doesn't happen, or it goes into the bladder instead, which is called a retrograde ejaculation. Dry orgasm can be caused by medical conditions, but it's also possible for it to happen without any medical concern if you've ejaculated a few times recently, and your body's semen has just been used up as it were. 

Men who repeatedly have dry orgasms should consult their doctors, especially if they're hoping to get someone pregnant at some point. If it happens after repeated sex though, there's no need to seek medical help.

i am on the pill and suffer from a white discharge, i thought it was thrush until i went to my doctor and i found out it was not thrush and that i should go off the pill. how do i stop this and still stay on the pill??

IT WAS ABOUT TEN TO TWELVE YEARS AGO THAT I EXPERINCED AN ORGASM WITHOUT EJACULATION, IT HAS NOT HAPPEN SINCE THEN. I HAVE ASKED MANY PEOPLE BETWEEN NOW AND THEN WITHOUT ANYONE KNOWING WHAT I WAS TALKING ABOUT. IT WAS NOT UNTIL RECENT THAT I ASKED A FRIEND OF MINE AND HE AGREED THAT IT HAD HAPPENED TO HIM. SO I HAVE SEARCHED LONG AND WIDE BUT HAVE NOT GOT THE COMPLETE EXPLANATION OF HOW AND WHY THIS HAPPENS. THIS ANSWER SEEMS TO BE ACCEPTABLE.

I can orgasm without ejaculation pretty much on demand, especially when i masturbate. It's harder to do during sex. It doesn't feel much different but its great when I masturbate, there's no clean-up. But im worried about health problems due to this.

i am 63 & take medicine for prostate enlargement
1-of side-effects is orgasim w/ no ejac..
i think medical term is retro-something
in other words the ejaculation sperm & semen went into my bladder
then later is discharged thru urinating
this is caused by the medicine not only shringing prostate
but also by RELAXING the muscle valve that usally closes during ejac..
Doctors say this is normal
and in my case after two yrs my muscle-valve got use to it
and i once again ejaculate.
however,,
i told the dr. that without ejaculation
it was like haveing a ice cream sunday MINUS the cherry on top...
for there is an added feeling with the semen/sperm flowing thru uretha.
after the throws of orgasim..

1/ yes it is true.

2/ Its possible because the ejaculation and the orgasm while normaly part of the same event are two different actions .... and when you learn to control them both youll know what I mean.

2a/ think about when your having sex and you just about to cum and your orgasming but your seconds from cumming well imaging holding off on the cumming .... and all you have is the orgasming .... thats the best way I can discribe it ... hope it helps.

3/ no it dosent feel the same ...it feels so much better but so much more frustraiting cos werve learnt to cum and here we are stopping it from happening its not normal..(only cos its different to what weve been doing in the past)

3a/ The anchent chineese believe that ones life energy is stored in the semen so the idea was to enjoy sex by orgasming but not loose life essence by cumming.

and lastly if your interested read the / or read up on the "Tao of sex"

I know this is a old post, but I know how it can be done. When you're reaching orgasm, you simply push (with your fingers) on the part between your balls and anus. Push firmly and you will not ejaculate. This is because your penis reaches further than just on the outside and you're blocking the semen's way. I have done this a couple of times but I prefer the old way, just feels something is missing the this way.

i'm in the same situation and i worry about health issues as well.:( anyone know if it does lead to health problems or not?

so this happens to me alot, and there are differences. infact, i find that when i first orgasim, i usually dont ejaculate, only after the second o do i actually ejacuate. here are the differences that i find. if i dont ejaculate, the o is more intense , i dont lose my erection as fast and im not as sensative, when i do ejaculate, this can happen with out the o, i lose the erection quicker and im really sensative to all touch. for anyone who are curious about this, if you read bonk by mary roach, its a great book, and its not unnormal or unhealth, its just not as common.

im a girl and my boyfriend could do that later he trained himself to have multiple orgasms o.O
first w/o ejaculation and the next one with

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I can orgasm without ejaculation pretty much on demand, especially when i masturbate. It's harder to do during sex. It doesn't feel much different but its great when I masturbate, there's no clean-up. But im worried about health problems due to this.

i'm in the same situation and i worry about health issues as well.:( anyone know if it does lead to health problems or not?

yes it is unhealthy to never release after orgasim. One or more without, then one with is fine though.

Yes, men can have huge wonderful orgasms without ejaculating. I started trying this 15 years ago when I was 45. You can find information on stimulating your self then just before you are going to ejaculate you use your muscles or hand pressure to stop the ejaculate, and still have the organism. I eventually could pretty much do it this way but wasn't totally satisfied. But, one of the benefits of trying to practice the "hold back" technique was self discovery and acceptance. One thing I discovered was how great anal stimulation can be. Eventually this led to prostate stimulation. There is a great prostate anal stimulation tool called aneros. Well, to make a long story short. I kept trying to have orgasm without ejaculation because I enjoy my masturbation so much I didn't like the "down time" or "deadness" I experience for several or more days after ejaculating. So, here's the secret: don't stimulate your penis. Men have so many great erogenous zones that can stimulate an orgasm You can have an orgasm by stimulating your testicles, your perineum, your prostrate from the outside, your prostrate from the anus side, other parts of you anus, and I'm talking full blown huge orgasms without a hard-on. When you first start stimulating and area, go slow...tiny movements at this stage is all you need, you're trying to get that first "hit" from some great hormone that is released and somehow it shoots all through your body in a second. You can keep this up for as long as you like. One thing to remember is that the orgasm starts in the spine and your abdominal muscles are a big part of the orgasm as well. You start stimulating and as it builds you need to get your pumping motion going with abdominal muscles and inner thighs....all your core strength stuff....it's great. There is a point where it feels like I've been able to "milk" my prostrate...I sort of feel liquid that gets released and I can change pace and go into orgasm. Right after orgasm I like to stimulate the tip of my soft penis to encourage all the wonderful after shocks and enjoy a "pre-cum" ejaculation which I spread over the tip of my penis. I don't always produce pre-come and it's just a tiny amount but somehow the pre-cum "validates" my orgasms...completes them mentally or hormonally in someway. Take care of yourself and by all means enjoy yourself all you want.

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