I had sex for the first time about 2 days ago with my recent boyfriend. We tried both vaginal and anal penetration however he couldn't get all in the way in because I was really tight. I don't remember it hurting a lot but the morning after he tried fingering me and it hurt so I moved his hand away. I also noticed blood on his fingers, a lot on my underwear and some on my bed sheets. There was also pain in my vagina and around my anal area and it hurt to sit and also to pee. It's been two days now and the pain subsided a lot but there was still soreness around those areas. There is no more blood on my underwear but if I stretched out my vagina I noticed some blood on it and it hurts to stretch. If I have sex the second time will I still be very tight? Should I try again even with this pain and soreness? I wasn't turned on a lot the first time so it was probably why we had complications getting him in. Anyway I can loosen up before we try again? I tried fingering with 2 and sometime 3 fingers today and 2 felt okay and 3 felt a little more tight but I managed to move 3 fingers around without being uncomfortable. And anyway I make help treat the pain and blood?
You popped your cherry, that's what cause the bleeding and pain