Hi, I am a 27 years old male.
Recently I was with my girlfriend for 6 days(full time) on a vacation. I tried to have sex with her but I couldn't get hard enough to penetrate her. My all attempts failed. What happened that I would get hard but not hard enough, and then within a minute that hardness too was gone. Before this I had attempted to have sex with a girl some 4 years back and same had happened at that time as well. So I am a virgin yet.
After some google search I found about prone masturbation hazards on healthystrokes site. I have always masturbated in prone style. So now I have decided to change to conventional way.
My problem is that I am new to conventional masturbation, so have few doubts about it.
1) When I tried conventional masturbation I noticed that I was rock hard only a few seconds before ejaculation. Is it normal or people get rock hard much before that. (While doing prone way I masturbated and had orgasm while being semi hard or almost no hardness.)
2) It was difficult for me to get aroused just by manual stimulation in absence of visual stimuli. Are normal people supposed to get aroused just by manual stimulation in absence of visual stimuli? I was masturbating after 5 days of abstinence.
3)Is my erection problem due to prone masturbation that I had been doing all my life.