hey everyone, im 18 years old, i have lost my virginty about 2-3 months ago, and i didn't bleed and last week sometime one of my close guy friend had finger me and i could feel him all the way up in my stomach and i still didn't bleed. Before i had sex i had been fingered and i never bleed. But i was wondering if i could still have my cherry intacked and also can you pop your cherry in fingering and if so how long does his finger have to be? also i was wondering how can you tell if you still have you cherry there? Also what if you get fingered before you hav sex does the chance of you breaking lower? and every time i get fingered it is tight to get in and is that normal adn why does that happen? also weird question but how can you tell if you really cum , what does it feel like and what does it look like? but anyways thanks.
A woman's hymen (a.k.a. 'cherry') can get broken before she does anything of a sexual nature sometimes. Things like using tampons or playing sports can cause the hymen to break, which is why some virgins may have a hymen that is no longer intact. I think the only way to know for sure if your hymen has broken is to get a pelvic examination. Also, having your hymen broken doesn't always mean you will bleed.
As far as your last couple of questions, it depends on what you mean. If by 'cumming' you mean having an orgasm, you can definitely tell when that happens; take my word for it - it's something that's hard to miss :-P . If by 'cumming' you mean releasing some kind of fluid, not all women do that. Women who ejaculate usually leak or spray a clear fluid (will look like water), and some women may spray urine.
As far as your last couple of questions, it depends on what you mean. If by 'cumming' you mean having an orgasm, you can definitely tell when that happens; take my word for it - it's something that's hard to miss :-P . If by 'cumming' you mean releasing some kind of fluid, not all women do that. Women who ejaculate usually leak or spray a clear fluid (will look like water), and some women may spray urine.
my girl friend and me had sex a month back...i was a virgin den...but i was not sure about her..i did ask her she said she was a virgin.....but den wen we did hve sex she didnt bleed d first time..d second time we had sex d next day she bled.....and she bleed a lot...she was expecting her preiods in 2 days...arnd...but before we had sex a week before i had fingered her...she didnot bleed tht time....so..does tht mean tht she was lying to me?
She may not have lied to you, the 2nd time you did it you may of been trusting harder which may of torn her hymen completely. Or your penis may of been more erect which would of caused her vagina to stretch more, you would know if she had her period while havin sex because it would probz be darker than normal blood and clumpy.
Good luck :O
Good luck :O