I'm 19 and have been with my boyfriend for almost a year. we have talking about getting an apartment together. I really love him and really want to move in with him (theres no doubt about that) im just really worried about how my parents will take it..i know that they will get really mad but i also think my mother would be more hurt than anything..she already doesnt like my boyfriend. i really love him and want to be with him..some one please help. thanx
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hey what happened with you :-) your post is 2 years old :-) I am wondering because I'm in the exact same situation as you, except that I'm 20.. The only thing that's bothering me is that my family are going to hate me for moving out :s
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Im in the same boat but we have only been together for 6-7 months and even though i really care about him we have had alot of problems, my parents dont like him and he is pressuring me to move in....he says that things will be better when we do...so i agreed....but i dont know if i want to marry him or anything like that and he said that if we dont move in together hes leaving....what do i do? hes so loving but at the same time very controlling. not sure if this is what i want
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I think that you should put it off to be honest. You haven't even been with him that long. If he is controlling, he will only get worse if you move out. You are better off putting it off because you haven't been together that long. YOu should be with someone for a least two years. What do you think?
Im in the same boat but we have only been together for 6-7 months and even though i really care about him we have had alot of problems, my parents dont like him and he is pressuring me to move in....he says that things will be better when we do...so i agreed....but i dont know if i want to marry him or anything like that and he said that if we dont move in together hes leaving....what do i do? hes so loving but at the same time very controlling. not sure if this is what i want
I think that you should put it off to be honest. You haven't even been with him that long. If he is controlling, he will only get worse if you move out. You are better off putting it off because you haven't been together that long. YOu should be with someone for a least two years. What do you think?
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hey im 19 to0 and im kind off in the same boat -different section,
i live with my sister at the moment ... my bf is independant and wants me to move in with him & he is very serious about it , he even wants to pay for my studies. We get along amazingly well ... we have been best friends for a year and are dating for 5 months. We love wakin up next to eacother ... we enjoy eachother's company and we make breakfast together and help eachother around the house whenever i stay over with him... i would love nothing more than to move in with him . i have never got along with anyone this well in my whole life...not even my own family.. we find comfort in eachother and we can openly discuss anything ...the thing is ...how do i tell my sister that i want to move in with him ... i feel so guilty because i live with her and i dont want her to feel abandoned or betrayed.
i live with my sister at the moment ... my bf is independant and wants me to move in with him & he is very serious about it , he even wants to pay for my studies. We get along amazingly well ... we have been best friends for a year and are dating for 5 months. We love wakin up next to eacother ... we enjoy eachother's company and we make breakfast together and help eachother around the house whenever i stay over with him... i would love nothing more than to move in with him . i have never got along with anyone this well in my whole life...not even my own family.. we find comfort in eachother and we can openly discuss anything ...the thing is ...how do i tell my sister that i want to move in with him ... i feel so guilty because i live with her and i dont want her to feel abandoned or betrayed.
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Check missionupandout.wordpress.com about a couple blogging on the process of moving out.
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and now i am too ... :( slept over at bfs place moms mad at me ,,,,, and dont want me too till i'm married or 21 :(
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