I just came across this bookmark in my browser and wanted to post. I had it marked a while back after deciding to quitting smoking pot. Well, I'm 78 days completely clean from all drugs and alcohol and 81 days from pot. And...this is coming from a guy that's gotten high for 19+ years. I started in high school. For those that are debating quitting - it is WORTH it. I have a new life. I've had too learn how to manage my emotions and deal with reality but I have also learned that I can enjoy life sober without getting high. Just to warn you though, I did go through withdrawals. The first 30 days were rough but I reached out to some people and had some help. I highly recommend plugging in to some good people and also most helpfully make lists. List why you started to get high. List why you get high still. Write down how smoking pot has screwed up your life in ways. Add up how much $$ you spent last year... Write down future goals and what you want to do with your life. For me, I decided to quit smoking because I got stuck in this rut of having to get high every single day to function. I had to get high to go to the grocery store...to get gas...to go to work. If you understand this than well...you get it. I ran away from my problems by smoking pot and they only got worse once once I came down. On bad days, I'd peg my stash and drink like crazy. All I did was run away. The next morning my problems were still there and there was a huge hole in in my stash and empty bottles. This isn't the way to life people. Life sober is f*ng beautiful. Give it a shot. The withdrawal is worth it. 20-30 days of it. You'll have headaches, you won't be able to sleep. You'll be highly irritable and you'll jones for getting high. I flushed my stash and poured all my alcohol down the drain. Changed my life. The majority of the withdrawal symptoms lasted about 3 weeks. I had a really hard time focusing for about 60 days. I'm about to hit 90 days and it's like nothing I've ever experienced. So, you guys out there that are thinking about quitting....it's awesome. Do it. Do it for your future. For your family. For your health and most of all - for your happiness. Happiness is not just getting stoned all day. It's realizing that you don't need to be stoned to be happy (this will happen about day 40 or so if you let it). I went to MA for a little bit and now I go to AA. You probably aren't ready for this but if you are wondering - the 12 step program is very awesome. I was highly skeptic. I'm agnostic and don't follow most of the G*d part in the 12 step recovery. I focus on Buddhist and Native American agnostic versions of the 12 steps. The 12 steps if you work them the way that works for you will change your life. If you really are an addict...and you can't just stop at one bowl or one joint like me...then you have a spiritual disease. Google "elastic arm drinking". This isn't a moral issue. Trust me. Take care and good luck to everybody out there. Sobriety and a brand new life is waiting.
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Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeed !
I don't want to preach so I'll speak from a personal point of view.
I'm on my 5th day .. This is how that worked out;
Day 1: Was easy, I was still high.
Day 2: Utter dispair. The thought of never getting high again was just too much to bear. There were moments during the day that i almost broke down crying. Because I love that weed. When I'm high I become some kind of all knowing sage. I want to soak up the sun or linger under the stars. I have the answer to everything. Crazy huh?
Day 3: Lots of soul searching. I think sometimes it's good to take stock of yourself. To question your addiction etc.
Day 4: Did a little exercise. No junk food. Was a 50/50 day. Sometimes I was missing the weed, sometimes the thought of letting ago cheered me up.
Day 5: I could see it was a sunny day outside, unusual here in the UK. Then it hit me. I drew back the curtains to let the sunlight in. The warm light flooded the room and me. Filled me up. It was at that very moment that I knew I no longer needed that seductive plant.
Habit kicked !
It really is that easy. I think about Day 1 and I laugh at myself. I know it wasn't weed I was addicted to. It was just an easy way to get through the day. The biggest problem I feel people have to get through is the feeling of emptyness and loneliness. But you know what .. That is easily resolved. Even as I speak I have no money or real friends. I don't care. I don't need the weed. I can make friends. Cos I'll be doing it with a clear head and a smile.
Gonna spend my days thinking about my health and my character. It's not what you have that counts. It's who you are. Too much weed holds you back. Facing the world without it is in itself a new kind of high.
Will I ever touch it again? .. maybe, when I'm in my twighlight years. Just now n then.
Should it be legal? .. YES. Less crime. Just treat it like alcohol, don't drive on it.
Will I stay clean. Yes, easy, standing my head.
Are people that smoke it good people? .. Ofcourse they are, not some of the dealers maybe, but those that just like to chill and don't use it everyday, they are ok in my book.
Is there something better ( without going all religious and spiritual )? .. Oh yes, a whole world filled with wonders to discover and people to meet.
You can do it. I know you can. Have faith in yourself. I'll check on this site now n then incase someone needs a pal.
PEACE.
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Don't fool yourself. I am 50 years old and have been smoking pot since I was 13, barely even missing a day. It's robbed me of me life. I can't seem to quit despite a good effort about 2 years ago. I even get up at night now to smoke a once or twice. I haven't responded to anyone's post here but yours because you really don't understand. Pot is controlling your entire life! My best advice is to leave it completely and don't look back.
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I hope it went well for you. I am 49 and have been smoking daily since I was 13 (barely missing a day). It's tough to quit, but it will just get worse you/I/we don't. I even wake-up to smoke most nights. My throat, heart, and chest hurt. I had no problems at 39, but I now know I absolutely have to stop
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to people quitting...stay strong...i quit after 40 years...sometimes its tough but all in all its the right decision...i only validated my excuses to smoke and they were BS...lungs better...in the gym everyday...quality time with my kids etc...stay stron
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Just as a quick follow up. It took me SEVENTY days to detox from weed. I bought a whole bunch of those self drug tests off Amazon and tested myself every day. 17 years of heavy daily use took 70 days to clear out of my system. Wow. Proud day.
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