Ok so the problem is my vagina is too short yes too short not too narrow ha i wish! I can barely fit the length of my index finger and when i do i can feel my cervix perfectly (hard but squishy - aldente if you will ;-) - lump with little dimple in the centre). Its such an nuisance when it comes to using tampons as they sit on the opening making it very uncomfortable but its impossible to place them any further? Also sometimes when i first place them in using the applicator they give me a painful sharp pain in my abdomen. my vagina is like this all time not just at certain times of the month too. Im a virgin now and im afraid when i do have sex 1) it wont fit! and 2) ill get this pain! Im also a little conserned at the fact that the vaginal canal itself (more sensitive part) - which is only about half an inch long and the rest (numb part) is very 'spacey' maybe 3 inches wide - like a sphere? Any info would be great thanks
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Hi Kate: I just found this EXCELLENT link for you, read it through and it appears too cover all the bases here is the link:
http://www.medhelp.org/www/ais/31_HPLASIA.HTM
Now for my personal experience. I had a stage 3 tear after my 2nd child was born. And when I delivered my 1st child I had over 50 stiches!! It was virtually impossible too have sex or any insertion at all - including tampons.
When I read through the above link, I saw the part about "stretching" your vagina. This is what I used. IF you go too a gynecologist ask for Vaginal Stretching Inserts, what they are is different widths and lengths. Each is inserted and each stage can take uptoo as long as you can handle. So you insert the smallest and relax - usually in a bath - it is made of wax, so it is hard but not as hard as a plastic. Once you can handle the smallest size without ANY discomfort or noticing it, you move on to the next size. When you get to the largest one, you will have NO problem with normal sex and using a tampon.
It is a great and empowering thing, knowing that these are made for women just like you. You don't feel so alone and isolated. I used too feel like I was an IT!!!! :-( As I couldn't be sexual! And this isn't about you having sex, it is about you being comfortable with your own body and making it as healthy as possible. I wish you luck and health. and just know with some time you will be just fine! Good luck, hope this helps!
http://www.medhelp.org/www/ais/31_HPLASIA.HTM
Now for my personal experience. I had a stage 3 tear after my 2nd child was born. And when I delivered my 1st child I had over 50 stiches!! It was virtually impossible too have sex or any insertion at all - including tampons.
When I read through the above link, I saw the part about "stretching" your vagina. This is what I used. IF you go too a gynecologist ask for Vaginal Stretching Inserts, what they are is different widths and lengths. Each is inserted and each stage can take uptoo as long as you can handle. So you insert the smallest and relax - usually in a bath - it is made of wax, so it is hard but not as hard as a plastic. Once you can handle the smallest size without ANY discomfort or noticing it, you move on to the next size. When you get to the largest one, you will have NO problem with normal sex and using a tampon.
It is a great and empowering thing, knowing that these are made for women just like you. You don't feel so alone and isolated. I used too feel like I was an IT!!!! :-( As I couldn't be sexual! And this isn't about you having sex, it is about you being comfortable with your own body and making it as healthy as possible. I wish you luck and health. and just know with some time you will be just fine! Good luck, hope this helps!
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