Hello. I am seventeen, going on eighteen. I have a boyfriend whom I have sex with, and I know that he is not the problem. We have been together for a long time and really do love each other and I feel the difference between "making love" and just "having sex" so I know that's not the problem. I've had sex with two other guys before him, so it's not like I'm completely inexperienced. My boyfriend and I take part in foreplay and masterbation and sex. All of it feels great and at certain moments I feel like I have to urinate. I heard that if a girl feels that way that she should just relax because that means she is about to cum, but I never do! No matter what we do, or what he does for me so to say, it never happens. I feel bad because the poor guy feels that it's his fault when really I don't think it is. It's been rumored that a lady won't reach her cumming point until she is in her thirties, maybe that's it? Some advice or information would be gladly appreciated! :-D
without realising you're probably thinking about it too much. Have you tried to bring yourself to orgasm? when you manage that you can tell your b/f what works for you. Just relax. The '30s' part of your question is totally not true :) x
I've been with a girl that was 17 being young my self FYI....lol..and she cam a lot like a lot a lot.......Mabey you just need to go longer. Me and my hit had sex for her first time...and it lasted 40 min. And she came reall early. But more than once.....and restraind from loud moans as well. So just go long and steady. Mabey it will happen. In