Anal sex is not normal sex, stop being such a douchebag. Can't stand all these LGBT getting offended by every little thing.
I had sex with my 25 year old partner (I am a 37 year old female with a male 25 year old), and he knew I was in pain PRE- surgery and it I thought it was painful. I had sex with him 7 days POST - surgery, and all he did was pick me up and take me to the bedroom and the simple act of him grabbing my butt hurt. I should never have had sex that soon post op. It made healing that much longer and more painful and he was gentle. This is the longest I have ever gone without sex when I have a willing partner, and seriously it is worse than any punishment the police or a judge could hand down. I need sex, and I need it now. I am 10 days post op. I could try it again, but I would be at 60% at BEST. And, it is not worth the set back. I would rather wait and be at 100% in another week. I am so very sexually frustrated. Masterbating (just the clitoris manually) hurts due to the tightening one experiences via orgasm. I feel you all. This is my 8th surgery - I have had a C-Section, Gallbladder removed...all the BIG ones...the hemroidectomy was the WORST and it is like no one talks about it because it is the boodie. I say we need to raise awareness.