please i need help, i have been into a relationship since 2000,she loves me i love her too,i am almost loosing her,one thing with her is that if she say no she mean yes.she has refusing me fingering her but this days she allows me but anytime i try to use my manhood she will allow me i will try all i coud but it wont enter,i want help in such a way that i will enter and before she knows i am in,we do kiss,romance,carress,i use to finger her,i use to even put my manhood around pressing hard but when she start complaining of the pains,i love her i dont anything that will hurt her please help me.
If she says that she doesn't want you to enter her then you have to accept that. By penetrating her without her consent it is rape.
If it is consentual, but it hurts, then you need to keep on fingering her to try to loosen the hymen so it doesn't hurt as much when you try to enter her.
If it is consentual, but it hurts, then you need to keep on fingering her to try to loosen the hymen so it doesn't hurt as much when you try to enter her.
Well. I was the same your girlfriend was. Let me tell you that my bouyfriend got me. He fingered me before but yet when he wanted to enter me it was tide and hurt. What you should do is add more fingers add the time as she can take it. Then when he wanted to go inside me he layed me down and talked to me. While he was going in and I told him that it hurted he told me that he loved me and that he will never hurt. he told me to hold him tight and think of how much I love him. It really worked because he got mi mind of the pain. We were both virgins and we are still together. And will be for along time. Try that and let me know. ;-)