im on birth control but i hadnt taken it for a couple of days because i had thought i wasnt going to be having sex. my boyfriend and i ended up having sex, but not for more than a couple of minutes in which we stopped every like 20 seconds to make sure there was no pre-cum because he didn't have a condom, stupid i know. he pulled out and came on the carpet. i always bleed during anything i do with him because he's too rough and i have a completely irregular period but like a week afterwards there was some dark brown discharge on my underwear. i wasnt scared at first because i've had brown discharge before and it's never been anything. and i got later literally 2 of the faintest spots of red blood ever, but i've been googling and i keep seeing all this stuff about implantation bleeding and i'm scared. i've taken all these little tests online and they say its massively unlikely i'm pregnant, but still. i dont have any of the pregnancy symptoms outside of being tired, which i always am, sex or not, and i usually get headaches. i dont get any stomach pains except for when i read about stomach pains and then i start panicking and my stomach hurts. am i just scaring myself into thinking i'm pregnant?
Geez...Not to judge, but I don't think I'd want to be with a guy that thought it was OK to cum on the carpet, gross! Not to mention not using a condom! Pulling out every 20 seconds will do nothing. It only takes one little excited sperm hanging out, waiting for his chance.
Silly not to use birth control. When you stop/or forget to use Birth Control, your system is going to dump more eggs, hence more likely to become pregnant. You don't say how long it's been since this sexual encounter so it's hard to tell. Usually, with pregnancy you'll feel breast tenderness and fullness, a feeling like you're getting ready to have a period but no period occurs. Take a pregnancy test and if it shows up negative, THANK YOUR LUCKY STARS AND NEVER DO SOMETHING THAT STUPID AGAIN. If you ARE pregnant, be prepared to GROW UP very fast...no matter what your choice is.
Lesson learned.
Silly not to use birth control. When you stop/or forget to use Birth Control, your system is going to dump more eggs, hence more likely to become pregnant. You don't say how long it's been since this sexual encounter so it's hard to tell. Usually, with pregnancy you'll feel breast tenderness and fullness, a feeling like you're getting ready to have a period but no period occurs. Take a pregnancy test and if it shows up negative, THANK YOUR LUCKY STARS AND NEVER DO SOMETHING THAT STUPID AGAIN. If you ARE pregnant, be prepared to GROW UP very fast...no matter what your choice is.
Lesson learned.