i am 27 my gf and i have sex 2 -3 times a week just recentily started having a lot more oral sex than penatrion. i dont masterbate any more or watch porn, recentily after cumming in mouth, i become to soft to penatrait her vagina, what can i do to remendy this?
It's normal for you to take time to get an erection after you've ejaculated. It's called the "refractory period" and as you get older, it takes longer for you to get erect again.
How long are we talking here? It may take 20 minutes or more for you to get a firm erection back.
Hope it helps.