soft mass around anus?

Hard stools means you're constipated and you need to take more water and fiber in your diet. Also, don't hold it in too long when you need to go. You should see a doctor to diagnose this problem which likely points to hemorrhoids, and get a referral to a colorectal specialist if needed. Try not to sit on your bottom too much and give it some breathing space. If you need any sympathy, I just got attacked by these evil lumps too after a bad day of diarrhea.