Hi there. I gave birth to my 1st 7.2 weeks ago. I had a perfect pregnancy and labour I only tore very slightly which didn't need stitches. I bled for 2 weeks after. All was feeling really good and at 3 weeks I really wanted sex do tried with no luck thought maybe too early. Tried few more times had 6 week check up not that I was examined at all, but still no luck it I can't even get it in which is the problem. Its gone extremely tight, more so than when I was a virgin lol. Tried plenty of lub plus wine to relax but no joy. It feels it hits on a bit of skin that im sure wasnt there before or well it dont stretch out of the way. Unsure whats wrong with me but its frustrating and getting me down. Ghinking about getting doc to check it out to see if still swallen or if something is wrong down there.
Anyone else had the same or am I weird. I really wasn't expecting this at all. :-(
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Hello Helga,
have you mentioned the problem you're having at the 6 weeks checkup? There are no set rules as to when you can start having sex (except for the first 3 weeks while your womb is still healing) and some experts recommend that you try before 6 weeks checkup so that you can discuss any issues at the appointment. I'd recommend you to see your doctor again; mainly because situation you described sounds to me like that small tear hasn't healed properly. Of course, this is just my opinion so it's best you get a real examination to make sure what is going on,
Wish you all the best,
Nicole
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Many thanks I didnt mention anything at check up I fidnt feel comfortable with the male doctor he didn't seem interested in my recovery. I know I should have. I am going to make an appointment with a female doc next week to check it all out. I hope its something like that.
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