adventuresofava wrote:
Check your PM.
haha, any advice for that?
Check your PM.
check my what?
adventuresofava wrote:
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check my what?
NO! Not that!
You got it...(Private Message)
oh ok, got ya. I didnt even realize you could send private messeges until you sent me one, ha ha.
ok i get it now.
ok i get it now.
The fruit thing works for my hubby. Made him lay off things that stink like onions, garlic, broccoli, cabbage or anything with high sulfur counts.. had him drink fruit juice and eat pineapples and drink lots of water and wow. In combo with the aformentioned start and stop technique my hubby and I had a great time.
The pre-cum is wonderful isn't it?? :-)
As far as anal and a guy... being he is not there alot (in army) it will take a ton of time to gain his trust and get him comfortable with the entire idea.
Some guys are just not into it. PLaying around and near his anus can get him going and that its very good and sometimes that is good enough for them.
As far as anal for you.. lubrication, relaxation, trust and communication.
Slow and steady, stopping just after entering the first muscels and then slowly going deeper in to the secound muscel, once you are past that it feels so much better. Positioning is also something you have to get the hang of, moving a certain way and having his angle differently can be the key. Some say bearing down like trying to make a bowel movement helps, but make sure you are good and clean in there first...LOL
Just relax and breathe.
Deep throat was mentioned before....
I can do that, have no gag reflex personally.
You need to learn to open wide and relax the throat muscels. Breathing excersizes help and even sometimes singing. I discovered it by accident to must of the satisfaction of my hubby. Learn to feel the muscels by yawning and stretching your neck.
Good luck!
The pre-cum is wonderful isn't it?? :-)
As far as anal and a guy... being he is not there alot (in army) it will take a ton of time to gain his trust and get him comfortable with the entire idea.
Some guys are just not into it. PLaying around and near his anus can get him going and that its very good and sometimes that is good enough for them.
As far as anal for you.. lubrication, relaxation, trust and communication.
Slow and steady, stopping just after entering the first muscels and then slowly going deeper in to the secound muscel, once you are past that it feels so much better. Positioning is also something you have to get the hang of, moving a certain way and having his angle differently can be the key. Some say bearing down like trying to make a bowel movement helps, but make sure you are good and clean in there first...LOL
Just relax and breathe.
Deep throat was mentioned before....
I can do that, have no gag reflex personally.
You need to learn to open wide and relax the throat muscels. Breathing excersizes help and even sometimes singing. I discovered it by accident to must of the satisfaction of my hubby. Learn to feel the muscels by yawning and stretching your neck.
Good luck!
ha ha- yeah- singing- actually does help, you learn how to control your breathing and how to change sounds with your mouth and throat- and slows your breathing.
I sang in school - but that was quite a long time ago.
Its strange b/c I can bring him entirely into my mouth, but I dont know how to not suffocate - and thats when the gag reflex kicks in.
So if you have advice on when to breath- timing- that would be awesome.
I sang in school - but that was quite a long time ago.
Its strange b/c I can bring him entirely into my mouth, but I dont know how to not suffocate - and thats when the gag reflex kicks in.
So if you have advice on when to breath- timing- that would be awesome.
MMM.. I have learned to breath through my nose and get the air around his penis while it is in my throat. I kind of open the back of my throat a bit extra while trying to breathe.
It is kind of like if one can learn to play the didgeridoo, (australia) as it is played with continuously vibrating lips to produce the drone while using a special breathing technique called circular breathing. This requires breathing in through the nose whilst simultaneously expelling air out of the mouth using the tongue and cheeks. By use of this technique, a skilled player can replenish the air in his lungs, and with practice can sustain a note for as long as desired.
So pracitce practice is all I did. He is very thankful. I like to challenge myself to weird and odd things like writing with both hands at the same time, writing backwards, the above breathing, singing and I even picked up how to undo my jaw a bit to accomodate him...LOL Kind of reminds me of a snake eating it's prey.
Another variable is the size of his penis. Hubby is quite large, especially in girth... so I believe anything is possible.
It is kind of like if one can learn to play the didgeridoo, (australia) as it is played with continuously vibrating lips to produce the drone while using a special breathing technique called circular breathing. This requires breathing in through the nose whilst simultaneously expelling air out of the mouth using the tongue and cheeks. By use of this technique, a skilled player can replenish the air in his lungs, and with practice can sustain a note for as long as desired.
So pracitce practice is all I did. He is very thankful. I like to challenge myself to weird and odd things like writing with both hands at the same time, writing backwards, the above breathing, singing and I even picked up how to undo my jaw a bit to accomodate him...LOL Kind of reminds me of a snake eating it's prey.
Another variable is the size of his penis. Hubby is quite large, especially in girth... so I believe anything is possible.
i dont know if this would work or not but if maybe your husband has a lot of sex... maybe that would make him ejaculate less sperm and more seminal fluid...
it'd probably be easier to swallow (if that's what your going for). i'm not sure but heap of sex makes me ejaculate less very time so more fluid and less sperm comes out.
it'd probably be easier to swallow (if that's what your going for). i'm not sure but heap of sex makes me ejaculate less very time so more fluid and less sperm comes out.
im 13 ansd i have thick as cum but it comes out alot but some times its really not thick at all i like it but y is it sometimes different?
hi i found this too, with my boyfriend his pre cum is so nice and really sweet and tasty, but his actual cum is really thick and makes me gag a little, although there's quite alot of it too, and its quite transparant. anyone know what affects this? i thinnk it just depends on the person but im not sure.
shizznit wrote:
The thickness of your semen is dependent on a lot of things... including how much water you drink, how long it has been since last you ejaculated, how much sperm you are producing, and some claim how much red meat or fish you have eaten.
im 13 and i have thick as cum but it comes out a lot but some times its really not thick at all. i like it but why is it sometimes different?
The thickness of your semen is dependent on a lot of things... including how much water you drink, how long it has been since last you ejaculated, how much sperm you are producing, and some claim how much red meat or fish you have eaten.
OK so first your cum is gonna be what you eat, so if he drinks more fluid his cum wont be so thick and also if he eats more fruits and vegetables it taste better, if he wont change his diet stop bi the local sex store and pick up some "Max Yummy Cummy" it works, its a pill that does the same thing, makes cum taste good
now for anal, im not gonna say it wont hurt at all cus thats a lie, but i will say it doesn't have to hurt very much and not for long, try this
1. make sure your in the best position, i recommend laying on your side, its like your tricking your body into thinking its going to sleep when you in this position so you begin to completely relax, remember that if you cant relax your belly you can relax your ass, this makes doggy style very difficult and should be left to the experienced.
2. make sure there is alot of fore play, this will make sure you are relaxed and in the mood
3. try using a little bit of an anal lube, these usually have a Desensitizing Numbing agent in them to make you feel less pain
4. use lots of lubrication with the anal lube (silicone based is way better that water based when it comes to anal sex)
5. Relax and enjoy it!!!!!
now for anal, im not gonna say it wont hurt at all cus thats a lie, but i will say it doesn't have to hurt very much and not for long, try this
1. make sure your in the best position, i recommend laying on your side, its like your tricking your body into thinking its going to sleep when you in this position so you begin to completely relax, remember that if you cant relax your belly you can relax your ass, this makes doggy style very difficult and should be left to the experienced.
2. make sure there is alot of fore play, this will make sure you are relaxed and in the mood
3. try using a little bit of an anal lube, these usually have a Desensitizing Numbing agent in them to make you feel less pain
4. use lots of lubrication with the anal lube (silicone based is way better that water based when it comes to anal sex)
5. Relax and enjoy it!!!!!
i guess to make him cum like a river, i suggest you try water. he should drink alot of water one hour or some minutes before sex. i guess the thickness might be as a result of dehydration. so also, fruits and vegetables could help. good luck to you
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try to get some butt plugs of different sizes or the pump kind that goes in small and once on there you can pump it up to get bigger and little by little get useto it. i have the same problem and i got r butt plugs of different sizes from really small to one about the size of my guys member and little by little i got useto it and after that it wasnt a problem. good luck to you