I'm 16 years old and not a virgin, today my boyfriend came round and fingered me. 2 hours later I was experiencing soreness when I walked and realised that the outer lips were bigger than usual and quite red. I haven't had any sort of discharge and can't find anything on the internet that relates to what is happening. I'm too scared to ask him if he hasn't washed his hands or anything like that. It would really help me out if someone told me if this is just a reaction or an infection that needs to be treated? Thank you
Hi, it is quite normal for this to happen and its normally caused through friction, you could of been a little dry to start with or your bf could of been a little rough.
Try not to worry to much it will get better in a few days in the mean time you could try using an ice pack as that should help take the swelling down :-)
Try not to worry to much it will get better in a few days in the mean time you could try using an ice pack as that should help take the swelling down :-)