About two and a half to three weeks ago my boyfriend and I were fooling around in bed. We did some foreplay anyways he inserted his penis into me and we were just fooling around for only a few minutes. He said that he precumed maybe once in me. I didn't believe him he probaly did it more than once. But anyhow he never ejaculated into me. At the time I was taking birth control but screwing up on it lots sometimes I took to a day trying to catch up to my proper day. In the mean time I just over my period maybe a week or so before that incident. I've been cramping inbetween my period like pinches in my pelvis. Sometimes my breasts would hurt a little bit not much though and even a couple of times I felt milk was leaking out of my nipples.May I mind you I have an eleven month old already. Anyhow my period came it was really weird. For the first couple of days it was really light like blood streaks were in my discharge then the next day my period came to a light to medium flow then it stopped. I went to the doctor and she said that it was my birth control that was doing it to me. She ran a pregnancy test with urine and it came out negative. Not even protien or blood in my urine. Then I went home. Then the next morning me period started again I felt sick and alot of cramps not severe ones then it tapered off into hardly anything a tiny bit of blood in my discharge not all the time though. Then the next day I bleeded again it was a light to moderate flow again it looked like old blood it was darker. My period has now stopped it only lasted for five days instead of my normal seven days. I still have cramps and pressure. I'm very confused is it all in my head and my mind is playing tricks on me. I've never had a period like that before. The doctors test came out negative, could have something in my body altered the results. Why would I still be cramping if my period is over. Should I wait to do another test in a bit? Or was it my pills doing that to me its pretty weird for pills to stop and start my period. I stopped taking birth control just to be safe. Does anyone have suggestions for me?