I've been seeing this girl for the past month and she told me last night that she was bisexual. Now i heard from a close friend of mine before that she was bi but i didnt believe it. She really likes me & i like her but i feel so uncertain about things now i dont know where i stand with her & i honestly dont know what i should do. She was troubled before i met her she wanted to kill herself at times but i kinda came into her life & changed that. Im afraid that if i leave her, she'll actually do something to hurt herself again. I dont know what to do and i need help with this situation! Am i an as****e if i leave because shes bi? Is it wrong to get into a relationship where the guy feels uncomfortable? Please help.
It's not wrong to enter into a relationship where you need to feel comfortable with her and being whom she is and what she is, she should accept that - it's not everyday that that is brought out in a relationship or into the open like that, kind of a bombshell. You are not being selfish you are just being unsure now saying that some guys would be more turned on by that as they would want the three-some or at least think there would be some chance of that happening. You should be upfront with your feelings with her as she has been with you, let her know how you are feeling so that knows too and it isn't a bombshell for her either if you don't move on with the relationship. Good luck and hope this helps