Basically I'm wanting to, not have proper sex but just fooling around but I have a phobia of pain, if that makes any sense. I'm wanting to go further with my boyfriend but the idea of my hymen breaking freaks me out and puts me off the idea. He isn't pressuring me into anything at all, he keeps telling me he isn't with me for sex, but I really want to go further. I'm 18 in a couple of months and I'm extremely lazy so I do no sports at all, I've checked but can't really make out what I'm seeing, basically my question is how can I break it with the least amount of pain possible? Or have I already broken it??
Its something that could happen even outside of sex, for me it happened when i did splits at about 12 years old and i felt a bit of pain and there was a drop of blood in my underwear but then i moved on, like once it happens its over basically. Its much less painful then like a period for example.
Its something that could happen even outside of sex, for me it happened when i did splits at about 12 years old and i felt a bit of pain and there was a drop of blood in my underwear but then i moved on, like once it happens its over basically. Its much less painful then like a period for example.
Its something that could happen even outside of sex, for me it happened when i did splits at about 12 years old and i felt a bit of pain and there was a drop of blood in my underwear but then i moved on, like once it happens its over basically. Its much less painful then like a period for example.