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Well... Me and my boyfriend fool around. This month we fooled around 3 times. All three times he fingered me. When we dry hump there's at least underwear and one layer of pants. I give him hand jobs and blow jobs but we do not have intercourse. On the 31st we had quite the night. Every day since then I've had more discharge than usual and stomach pains. I'm worried that while fingering me he may have had pre cum on his hands and I coul be pregnant. Usually we go and wash hands in between activities. But is there any chance that a small amount o pre cum could impregnate me? He's never fully came on me ever. He got a small amount on my outer thigh once. That's it. Just need some opinions, I'm pretty scared.

Hi, this is a legitimate question and I understand why you might be a little worried, but I don't think there's much chance at all that you could have gotten pregnant this way.  The odds of conceiving aren't even that great under PERFECT circumstances for many reasons, but mainly because your body is designed to be very discriminating about which sperm can actually make its way to the egg to fertilize it.  So even with millions and millions of sperm present in a normal amount of ejaculate, it doesn't always happen.  If there were enough semen on his hand for you to see or feel, and if he were inserting his fingers far enough into your vagina to deposit a fair amount, there might be a very, very small chance, but I still think it's doubtful (otherwise we'd be hearing about this happening to a lot more young women, I think ;-)). Hope this helps to ease your conscience! If not though, you can look into purchasing a pregnancy test (from a drugstore) that can confirm a pregnancy very early on; I believe I've seen commercials for one that can tell you about a week before your next period is due. 

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