Hi,
I am a female and I have been having trouble cumming. I have never came from masturbation or fingering from a guy. My boyfriend has went down on me, but that also never produced come or an orgasm. He says that there is something wrong with me in a joking manner but I am becoming worried that this is true. I know that a person needs to be really relaxed with nothing on their minds and a few times I was always worried about my roommates or his walking in. I have never had vaginal penetration from a penis, only fingering and oral. However, the last time we did anything sexual no one was around and I was completely relaxed (or I thought I was). While doing sexual things I get really wet and reach pleasure in which my legs begin to tremble a little but then it all of a sudden disappears and I NEVER cum. After this I feel bad because he has been spending time trying to make me cum and I tell him that he can stop because hes tired. What do I do??
Also it seems that when I do sexual things the pleasure just disappears and I am really wet but that is it. However, the next day I could be walking down the street or in class and I feel my underwear are wet. When I go to look it seems as if it is cum. When I am wet its usually clear and watery but this the next day is usually sticky and white/cloudy looking. I know I should know this as female in college but this the second day is cum correct? Does anyone know why this is delayed/ is this normal? Is it even cum or should I be worried that there is something else wrong?