I'm 16 years old and I just found out that my 14 year old sister has been having sex with her boyfriend. She claims she loves him but she is only 14 so I don't know if this really is Love or not? I was on her phone sending a message to a mate and I looked at some messages from her boyfriend and they had been talking about getting checked out for pregnancy, so I asked her and she kind of smirked and ran off into the bathroom so it was quite obvious that she had been having sex. Me and my sister are really really close and she normally tells me everything, she knows that I think underage sex is wrong as my eldest sister got pregnant at the age of 15 then ended up with cervical cancer and died. I promised her I would never let that happen to myself or my two younger sisters and now I feel like I have let her down. I don't know what to do? Me and My sister keep argueing about the whole sex thing and it's really hurting me. We tell each other everything, so why wouldn't she want to tell me something as big as this? I think it is wrong that they are having sex but I have no idea what to do.
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Well, she already knows you know, so why bother her? Plus, maybe she's embarassed to tell you, because she knows it's kinda early for her to be having sex. Maybe something went wrong (condom ripped for example) , and she's scared to tell you. Or maybe she's already pregnant? In either case you should come to her while she's just lying down on the bed thinking about whatever, sit next to her and ask her calmly if anything's wrong. Then work up the convo to the sex part. Hope that helps)
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Thanks. :). We have spoken about it but it always seems to end up in arguements. I don't really want her having sex at the age of 14 because she is so young and I don't want her to end up pregnant. I just don't want her future spoiled by some boy, she's doing so well at the moment, she's just launched a new CD in our community and she could really far, but if she ends up with a baby it would have all been spoiled :/.
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Well, tell her the obvious. Ultimately, ot's her choice whether to hump or not, tell her that she will be the only one responsible for her actions. Also tell her that if girls have a lot of sex it ruins their health (i'm pretty much sure that's a fact). If she wants to have sex it better be with a respectable guy, and proper protection must be used. No matter how much you want her to stay away from adult games, this can only be her choice. Your job is to set her on the right path. Any other questions feel free to reply))
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if you are truely worried i would tell your parents if i was in your situation thats wat i would do... save her rather than have the chance of loosing her
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